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guys in my grade
I don't like the guys in my grade. They dont like me. I like the guys in the grade above me. They like me.
All of my friends in my grade are friends with those guys who don't like me so its awkard.
All of the girls in the grade above me complain of them being "their guys" so i better "back off".
Help? Why dont they like me but the older ones do? And because of all this I cant get a boyfriend for beansss. Lol sorry but yeah thanks a bunch :)
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You know, if I were in your position, I would ignore what the girls in the grade above you say. Yes, they are older but isn't it their choice who they date? Isn't it your choice who you date? The only reason they are being mean to you about it is because when they were your age, they probably would have loved someone in the grade above theirs and didn't have anyone's interest. It might even be they are having trouble competing with you for the attention of the guys in their grade.
Now, obviously, as has already been said, your main focus needs to be on your studies, but if you find a guy in the grade above, the grade below or whatever other grade that you like and who likes you bafk, then you should go for it. As long as you aren't hurting anyone (taking the guy you know a friend likes or who is dating someone else) then who does it harm? It is entirely up to you and the object of your affection and you should never let anyone tell you otherwise.
I say, if you like the guys in the grade above, then you should go for it.
That being said, I will warn you that although they will be sly about it, the girls in the grade above may well begin some nasty behaviour towards you and you will want to take this into account. If you think you can handle it then you should, if you don't, then don't.
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well, just wait it out, sometimes good things take time. maybe when you get into a different grade or a different school they might like you there, but life isn't always about guys, focus on your studies furst, then think about guys... god, I'm starting to sound like my father lol
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