Question Posted Thursday September 21 2006, 7:04 pm
Hi, I am 15/f. I like my brother's friend, who is 17.
One of his other friends' little sister liked him. When he found out, he said he would never go out with her becasue she is his friend's lttle sister...and was pretty much like "Yuck"
Anyways, when I first met him, he already knew my name, but we didn't say much to each other. Then around a week or two later, it seemed like he might like me, because he was looking at me and talking to me and stuff. Although I liked him, I didn't know what to do. I didn't want him to be disgusted, so now I completely ignore him. (I'm weird, I know). And he ignores me as well.
My question is, should I try to flirt with him and sew what happens? Do you think he would ever go out with me?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? MelLeDisko answered Thursday September 21 2006, 8:00 pm: Why not, give it a shot! Don't flirt obviously and heavily, though. Just a little bit here and then and see how he reacts to it. If he flirts back, he may like you. It'll be up to him to make the first move, though, and if none is made after awhile, I wouldn't bother with him after awhile because like you said, letting him know of your feelings would ruin the relationship between you guys and it might make things akward.
I'm not too sure if he would, I'm not saying it's because of you, but if he said no to the other girl because she was his friends little sister, then he probably means that rule for all people. :/ But you never know, his mind could change and he might've even just said it because he didn't want to date her and didn't know what else to tell her.
So basically: just flirt a bit and see what happens and if anything continues from there!
Geneva answered Thursday September 21 2006, 7:57 pm: I wouldn't flirt with him because that is a huge age difference! and I don't think he would be interested. trust me the right guy will come along eventually and you'll be glad you didn't make a fool of yourself by flirting with him [ Geneva's advice column | Ask Geneva A Question ]
xojessii answered Thursday September 21 2006, 7:43 pm: FLIRT!!! its your best shot, if he flirts back then he probably likes you. and either way flirting is just plain fun anyways =]
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