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how do you kiss?


Posted Monday October 2 2006, 4:24 pm

all my mates have kissed some1 , i havnt, what is the first kiss like and "how do you"kiss lol!
13/f
sadie x


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Winning him back


Posted Monday October 2 2006, 3:32 pm

Okay...very complicated situation, very simple question. How do you win a guy back over?
We broke up, but we didn't really break up. We still hug and kiss and shit, but I feel as though he's trying to convince himself he doesn't love me anymore because what he felt for me freaked him out, or something.
However, I want him to miss me so I thought maybe I'd just leave him alone for awhile and be a little bitchy to him and see what he does.
But then I wonder if he's trying to drive me away, and if I did that he'd still get his way.
I'm tired of playing his games. I need to be stronger and like, not avoid him but not give into him. Like I'll wanna do something and he'll alter the plans or something and I'll just go...

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breaking up


Posted Monday October 2 2006, 3:13 pm

my boyfriend just broke up with me over email...we've been together for a pretty long time and i thought he would be more considerate then this. also, he didnt tell me why he wanted to break up, so i have no idea...i just dont know what to do

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my boyfriend flirts a lot


Posted Monday October 2 2006, 1:01 pm

my boyfriend flirts a lot with my friends.
like our group of friends..he flirts with my 2 best friends in it and those are the two without boyfriends. i know he likes me and theyre like you know he doesnt like us he likes you. but theyre good about it they dont edge him on.

but then theres one girl. and she flirts with my boyfriend a lot. shes in our group of friends too. were really close and everyone says stuff to her. shes the reason we get mad at our boyfriends a lot because she flirts with them and then they dont tell her to stop most of the time. we know our boyfriends love us but come on.

my friend whose a guy hes my best friend he said that when it happens and hes bothering me that i should say ...

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HOW DO WE PLAY CHICKEN???


Posted Monday October 2 2006, 11:58 am

okay well all of a sudden my boyfriend pocked me in the stomach n he was like chicken n im like wat the heck so please tell me what it is and how to play thanks

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Boyfriend


Posted Monday October 2 2006, 11:33 am

Okay this is kind of strange for me, I never post questions on my love life....so here it goes.

I have a boyfriend who is 17 and I am 14. (Its only a two in a half year difference, I'm almost 15) so we've been dating for about three weeks. He told me he was going to wait till' he said I love you, until he really meant it, and he did last night. The only thing is, I don't love him back, I know that for sure. But I am not even sure if I like him. He is an amazing guy. But when we kiss, I don't really feel anything. I get butterfly's when he says I love you, but other than that I don't really feel anything.
I've heard people say that you should get like butterfly's or w/e when you kiss, but I don't get them. So I don't k...

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Posted Monday October 2 2006, 9:32 am

I found out that my bf was libra and i'm vigro. I read this one thing that said what was happening to me word for word. He was playing me, and my friend, and my friends step-sister. We're all about the same age and we all LOVE him so much. Truth is i gained courage to ask him out. So he walked to my house (he lives two steets away) to tell me he would go out with me. It was so cute he walked all the way to my house just to say yes! Anyway my friends we're happy for me but mad cuz they knew he liked more than one girl. I didn't seem to care because, I liked him way to much. So I just ignored it. Now he likes my friend, and her stepsister, and ME! Should I leave him or deal with him liking them too?
I don't think i could deal with lea...

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How do you keep a guy interested?


Posted Monday October 2 2006, 1:40 am

17/F

I'm dating a guy but we're not bf/gf... just dating open ended so we're pretty much allowed to date other people too. The thing is that I don't want to go out with anyone else; just him. So far he hasn't been seeing any other girls, but if/when he does I know that I'm going to feel completely crushed. How do I get him to like me enough to consider only me in a relationship? Lately he's been kinda cold to me, too. I feel like I'm losing his interest, any ideas on how I can spark up our relationship up?

Sex is not an option

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Getting Her Back


Posted Sunday October 1 2006, 11:12 pm

My girlfriend of 10 months recently broke up with me because of the way I treated her. She is already messing around with someone else. We were madly in love. How do I get her back?

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i like this kid


Posted Sunday October 1 2006, 10:41 pm

theres this guy, and we are friends. we dont hang out but we talk online on the phone so we arnt the closest friends but he says he loves me and i love him back. he wants to hang out with me but im afraid if we hang out he might think im ugly and he might never talk to me again. =( but i really think we should go out. we dont go to the same school and we only know eachother because one of my friends who i dont see often hooked us up. we arnt going out yet and about 10 people say we should go out so i dont know should i go out with him or not im afraid his friends might not like me or something. hes also 2 years older then me so is 2 years a big difference? i dont know what to do because im really not the prettiest so im afraid he wont like ...

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WHAT TO DO


Posted Sunday October 1 2006, 9:45 pm

k so i still like a girl who a dated two years back. we we're really close had our ups and downs and lasted about a year. we've always had feelings for eachother and recently we've told eachother things about how we want to get married and all that good stuff.

the bad part of it all, is there is this girl who seems to be infatuated with me. i know its not affection, which is the first step i know to recognize what i should do. basically we made out while she was completely naked..and we tried to have intercourse. but thankfully, it didnt go in.

my dilema is telling girl no.1 about what happened, and stopping what is happening with girl no.2

any advice please?!!?!?! im desperate =\

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I love you?


Posted Sunday October 1 2006, 9:31 pm

Alright so I'm dating this guy for about a month. I really really care for him and he's so amazing to be around. I don't know whether I love him or not...but I feel like I do. I don't want to say anything, though, because I don't want to scare him away. I was just wondering what period of time do you think should elapse in a relationship before you say that you love someone? What's the "norm"?
thanks.
EM

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Posted Sunday October 1 2006, 9:29 pm

I want todo Porn sex but i dont know who to do it with

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does he like me


Posted Sunday October 1 2006, 4:32 pm

well i like this guy, lets call him james. and my best freind is jen. well i like james and i dont think he likes me
we always talk online though and i comment him sometimes on myspace but he rarly comments back he comments my freind a grade older then me, lets call her susi. well he alwasy comments susi
and i guess he thinks shes wicked hott or something but she doesnt like him. well jen my best freind tells me like a few times its so ovious he likes you. the way he talks to you on aim sometimes he wants you to like him.
but if he liked me then wouldnt we be dating. because he knows i like him. its werid but my other best freind "jessica" likes him a little too but shes susis little sister and i really dont...

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Gahsha


Posted Sunday October 1 2006, 4:00 pm

I have a friend who likes this girl as more than a friend. And she knows it, but she just would rather prefer being friends.Now he is deciding to totally ignore her. Why can't guys just be friends even if they have feeling. I mean if he really liked her he would want her to be happy right?

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theres this guy


Posted Sunday October 1 2006, 3:46 pm

i like this guy and im really good friends with him ..but i like him and i kind of want to ask him out. but i dont want to ruin our friendship or anything. and i dont know how to ask him out? advice please?

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restraining order...long story, trying to make it short


Posted Sunday October 1 2006, 2:22 pm

I don't want to say my real name on here in case she tracks me down. I'd prefer to be called by my username.
I'm a homosexual seventeen-year-old female. My girlfriend broke up with me eight months ago. Shortly afterward, she called me and threatened to kill me. I tried to get a restraning order, and the only reason it wasn't granted was because she didn't get served. I didn't know her address. She contacted me recently, wanting to get back together and I said no. I haven't heard from her since.

And all this time, I have kept every single piece of paperwork having to do with the restraining order. Does this mean I'm not over her? I heard that if you still have things that have to do with your ex it means you aren't. I'm keeping the papers because I don't feel safe.

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The girl i like is taken, but is going to get hurt


Posted Sunday October 1 2006, 1:51 pm

So there's this girl that i like. It just started out as a casual thing after i met her at a festival. We were seeing each other quite regularly and I thought our relationship was starting to develop. I started to talk to her about things getting more serious and she said there was "another guy". I was really cut up over it but she said that he was goin away to university and that she was going to just get over him and that i would just have to give her some time. I did, and things started going well again, then when I was going to see about furthering our relationship she said she was going out with this other guy. She led me on and i was upset, but i still like her, and now im worried that with him being at university he's going...

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jealousy


Posted Sunday October 1 2006, 1:26 pm

Ok so heres the thing.Me n my boyfriend have been dateing for about 7 months now. And he is my first love.In the beginning things were rough because i was so jealous. But i worked on it and now im not as jealous. He talks to girls n i talk to guys. But the thing is i only pretend like its ok. I mean its totally wrong for me to be mad that he talks to girls because i talk to guys. and i tell myself to just push my feelings away. But i always tell him its okay when he talks to them because i want to make him happy. and i hate pretending like things are ok when they are really not.But i also feel like a bad person because i feel bad when he talks to girls but i talk to guys. is this all normal? any help?
p.s. i cant rlly talk to him about it because hes in the army training.

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Dilemna


Posted Sunday October 1 2006, 12:26 pm

Things were going GREAT with Nick until Friday afternoon. Earlier that day, he said I could sit by him at lunch since my friends weren't going to be there. I didn't actually end up sitting by him because my friends came back and forced me to be by them. But anyways, then I sat by him at the pep ralley and he said "What happened at lunch? I saved you a seat". I explained to him the story and apologized and then we just joked and laughed the whole time. I really like Nick because of his personality. Everything he says or does makes me smile or laugh. BUT after school, everything changed. Nick's friend, Will, knew that I liked Nick so he asked Nick if he'd want to go to homecoming with me. That made me really mad because I wanted Nic...

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