My girlfriend of 10 months recently broke up with me because of the way I treated her. She is already messing around with someone else. We were madly in love. How do I get her back?
Additional info, added Sunday October 1 2006, 11:13 pm: She claims the new guy and her are just friends but I know from what I have seen and heard myself that they aren't. I am miserable without her and have been for the past 3 weeks.. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? beebee69 answered Monday October 2 2006, 9:18 pm: If shes already messing around with someone else cuz then just forget her and get a diffrent girlfriend.If she gets a diffrent person right away then she didnt really love you the way you loved her.Try getting a online relationship,thats always fun.Hook me up sometime if you wanna talk.=)
mariaxfusho answered Monday October 2 2006, 4:33 pm: Only try to get her back if you know what you did wrong in the relationship and you're willing to fix that. And she's probably only messing around with this other guy to either see how you react to test your feelings. It's probably nothing serious. Since you want her back, just talk to her and tell her how you feel and promise her that you'll treat her better and mean it.
mwalnutss answered Monday October 2 2006, 2:14 pm: hey. wow that sucks. i would not beilive any of the stuff coming out of her mouth. only an idiot would think there "just friends." i know this might be really hard to do, but go flirt with other girls. make her jelous( iknow my spelling sucks, ignor it lol =] ) make her see what she is missing. but if your the kind of guy that would not do that. try something like this : talk to her, mantian a friendship with her. talk to her friends, find out what they do together. i was in a long relationship at a young age, we broke up after 8 months, i know thats not as long as your relationship. but i know, its extremly hard getting over it. i hope i helped. [ mwalnutss's advice column | Ask mwalnutss A Question ]
xgirlygurl answered Monday October 2 2006, 11:33 am: If youre miserable without do you think that trying to get back at her is going to help? If she dumpded you for the way you were treating her dont you think that youre kind of proving her right if you do something to try and upset her?? if shes messing about with a guy maybe its because she not over you? IF youre miserable without her ask her for another chance the worst she can do is say no!
good luck
kim
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Elcee answered Monday October 2 2006, 8:42 am: If you treated her badly, why would she want to be with you? If you treated her like a princess perhaps she felt suffocated. The chances are she will not want to get back with you, and if that is the case, there is not a lot you can do about it.
Have you tried talking to her about how you treated her? Try sending her a letter explaining how you are feeling, but if she rejects it you will have to accept the truth and move on.
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