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jealousy
Ok so heres the thing.Me n my boyfriend have been dateing for about 7 months now. And he is my first love.In the beginning things were rough because i was so jealous. But i worked on it and now im not as jealous. He talks to girls n i talk to guys. But the thing is i only pretend like its ok. I mean its totally wrong for me to be mad that he talks to girls because i talk to guys. and i tell myself to just push my feelings away. But i always tell him its okay when he talks to them because i want to make him happy. and i hate pretending like things are ok when they are really not.But i also feel like a bad person because i feel bad when he talks to girls but i talk to guys. is this all normal? any help?
p.s. i cant rlly talk to him about it because hes in the army training.
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Honestly... your man is gonna start feeling suffocated and take off if you do that.. They key element to a realationship is trust and if you don't have that then kiss your relationship goodbye.... Just because he is talking to another female doesnt mean he is cheating. He can have friends just a well as you can. Ya the feeling might not go away but you have to realize you cant be an obssessive girlfriend or your never going to have a serious relationship.
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Many women are jealose about there boyfriends, it is completely normal, Plus if it your fist love, you are feeling things you have never felt for anyone and you probably think it will last forever, If you think would you like it of he didn't let you talk to boys? Not in a flirting way, just a mate, would you like your boyrfriend to be jealose, you can love soemone and not be jealose, I think If you learn to fully rust that he will not cheat on you with any other girl/or guy, your jealosy will slowl fad away.
Being jealose is natural, but learning to trust someone, is harder.
When he gets back from the army training sit down and just talk to him calmly, He may think otherwise that you don't trust him and you think he will go off with the other girl or guy.If this is the case then think how you would feel if he didn't trust you, A relationship is based on trust, Love and empathy.
Hope I Helped in someway,
Good Luck Dear.
Daphne
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