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WHAT TO DO
k so i still like a girl who a dated two years back. we we're really close had our ups and downs and lasted about a year. we've always had feelings for eachother and recently we've told eachother things about how we want to get married and all that good stuff.
the bad part of it all, is there is this girl who seems to be infatuated with me. i know its not affection, which is the first step i know to recognize what i should do. basically we made out while she was completely naked..and we tried to have intercourse. but thankfully, it didnt go in.
my dilema is telling girl no.1 about what happened, and stopping what is happening with girl no.2
any advice please?!!?!?! im desperate =\
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okay honestly is the best way to go. you can start out saying "I have a conffesion to make." honestly.. girl num 1 might just get mad but its still the right thing to tell her. she might also feel hurt but make sure yu tell her that yu do love her nd that girl nub 2 never ment a ting to you. the best way to go with all of this is doing something that no guy might do... tell her your feeling about her. nd i mean everything. why you love her how much what she means to yu how sorry u might be.EVERYTHING.
girl num 2. shes out of your life. say that to urself over nd over nd mean it. if u love girl num 1. then girl num 2 should be out of your system.
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you have to be honest with girl number 1, even if she gets really mad at you. just because you didn't tell her, doesn't mean she won't find out. that stuff happens to go around fast believe it or not. just be open & honest. that's what a relationship is about anyways. you should really stress the fact that it is infatuation, not affection with girl number 2. if you guys aren't together & almost had sex, that means she basically cares about nothing but that. that's how it is in most cases anyway. talk to girl number 2 before girl number 1. why?? you can cut it off with her & then when you tell girl number 1, you can explain that you already have & what not. good luck with this situation.
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