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my crush is my best friends boyfriend
Posted Monday November 13 2006, 7:14 pm
im a 13 year old female.
my crush is my best friends boyfriend and i told him a few weeks ago that ive liked him for a few months and im jealous of my best friend cuz she has gone out with her crush like 5 times now and i know that him and i will onyl be friends cuz hes 17 almost 18 and true friends usually dont date their best friends ex bf. but he even told me that he likes me but i dont know what to do about it! and i dont even think there is anything to do. we always see eachother at church and one night my best friend had choir practice and so it was just me and my crush, and we were hanging out and talking and he was flirting with me and i was flirting with him and then a few hours later she comes out and he like runs o...
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i need your opinion!!
Posted Monday November 13 2006, 6:54 pm
okay, so, here's the deal: this guy that ive known for a while might like me. he used to be my neighbor when i was little, then i moved away and went to another school, but then i started coming to the same school 3 years later, i just dont live by him anymore. well, anyway, so my friends say he likes me, but hes to shy to say it. and i like him a LOT!! he sometimes talks to me, you know, he just says something to make me laugh, or to try to impress me. he always looks at me, and when we're at school watching basketball games with our friends, every time i look at him, hes looking back at me. i think he MIGHT have a crush on me, but i dont know for sure. i just need your opinion on if you think he likes me or not.
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confused--dont know what he wants
Posted Monday November 13 2006, 6:12 pm
me-- kota--14 almost 15
boy-- Mark--17
K so the day before mine and marks 1 month aniversary he told me he thought we should take a break becuase we moved to fast and he needs to catch up on things. I cried. A lot. more than i should have. He tells me he still likes me and he is going to come back to me. But in his other life, he calls all these other girls baby and stuff. We still ahng out at school he still walks me to my classes and we talk ocasionaly but not as much as we used to. he tells me one thing then goes and tells people another.. Until he broke up with me i trusted him completely but now.. its like i dont even know who the real him is.... i really dont have a reason to not trust him, but for some reason i ...
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saddness
Posted Monday November 13 2006, 6:06 pm
I felt something for a boy. We spent a few magical days together. He flirted with me, a lot, and it's the closest I've ever been to a boy. We never kissed or anything like that. I don't even know how he felt about me. But now he is gone. There is no chance that I will see him again, ever. I am so sad, I see memories of him everywhere. What can I do to make myself feel happy, and get over this loss.
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Cold Hearted </3
Posted Monday November 13 2006, 5:42 pm
Ok ..
I have been going out with this guy for around 2/3 weeks but I cant help noticing his strange moods.
Hes also on a game I play also known as GUNZ...An online Multiplayer game
Hes worst than a women , One minute hes fine next hes really cold and says nasty stuff without realising...Then straight after apologises..
I mean for example..The other day , msn convo went like this:
[Him] = We didnt talk much did we
[Me] = I Know..Doesnt matter we can talk now ^^
[Him] = I dont think we have any interest in each other
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Then End...Next day he doesnt understand what he said?
Under the circumstances it really hurt when he said that..
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Posted Monday November 13 2006, 5:19 pm
15 F - Me
15 M - Jason (the guy I like)
Jason and I have liked eachother on and off for about 3 years now. During the summer we told eachother that we liked eachother but nothing really came from it. We are really close friends and have held hands but nothing more. I am *rarely* shy around the guy I like, but sometimes with Jason I hold back my feelings. He is the same, he only ever is shy around me.
Today we were supposed to hang out (with other people too) but everyone backed out and he said he 'wasnt allowed' to go out anymore. I told him he didn't have to lie to me and if he didn't want to see me that he could just say it. Then he said that he was lying and just really wasn't feeling well and didn't ...
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Weirdly perfect!
Posted Monday November 13 2006, 5:00 pm
Okay so me and my best friend Ashley have been best friend for years now…every since childhood. We just recently…well in September…met these two guys Tom and Mark. Tom and mark have been best friends for years also. Tom like Ashley and Mark likes me. Tom is older than mark and Im older than Ashley and tom and Ashley have the same favorite colors, foods, drinks, etc. as do me and mark. We all have the same exact favorite band and have the EXACT same personalities…Toms matching ashleys exactly and mike matching marks exactly even though all four of us are basically identical. We are all the same ages and in the same grade and live in the same area. We all love the same things and hate the same things. We all love the same exact other ...
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boyfriend-less
Posted Monday November 13 2006, 4:54 pm
I really want a bf cuz iv nevr had one b4. all my frends hav. im 13 and i jusst found out that the guy i liked is going out with some girl noone in my school knows, so hes out. i also like a seventh grader( is that weird?) and had this female seventh grader ask him if he'd evr go out w/ an 8th grader (he sed ya if shes hot but not one frum our skkool) so darn.
i try to flirt but noone evr asked me out and wen id tell them i liked them theyd giv me the cold shoulder. iv been with most of the kids in my grade since kindergarden, so i kno them all, but noones liked me except my guy-bff for like a week and one other guy in my class last year who sed he likes me, im different then everyone else, and then he went out with a ninth grader th...
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You - doing that thing you do, breaking my heart in two.
Posted Monday November 13 2006, 3:45 pm
14/F : Never had a boyfriend
Well, I've liked this boy [lets call him Harry] for a long time. I've liked him for a year and a half. Now, Harry and I have recently become better friends that we thought was possible. But yes, we're friends. Anyhow, last year I really liked him and even asked him out a couple times and for a chance. He said no.
This year I talked to him and asked for a chance and he said no again. So at this point I got aggravated and in a sense 'gave up', but I couldn't stop thinking about him. So my friend asked him if he thought I was pretty, and he said yes, I think she's pretty. So I was kind of happy, but I know he apparently doesn't like me.
Yet he flirts with me nonstop, and...
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Should I let up?
Posted Monday November 13 2006, 2:25 pm
Yesterday I asked a question about my boyfriend being too friendly with a female. I got mad at him and he went into a depression and said I am doing it to him. Later he got offended and depressed again when I let him know about the responses I got from this site that were beneficial to me,is he feeling guilty about his behavior, are my suspicions of his impending cheating true?Usually he is very upbeat. I think He is way too sensitive about the subject.
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Boyfriend In Another State
Posted Monday November 13 2006, 9:45 am
Alrite, Well i have recently been talking to this guy in another state. (for about like 2 months now). so about a month ago he told me that he like realli had feelings for me and asked me to be his girlfriend and i agreed. well, i realli love him alot and it sounds like realli dumb but we have already talked about like,getting married and shit..well it sounds like a cute little fairy tale rite? WRONG! ok i was just talking to him like 10 min ago on MSN and i was like, "do your parents know about me" and hes like, "yea and they fully support me. do your parents know?" and im like, "not yet" and hes like, "well u know your going to have to tell them"
so my question is how do i tell my dad...
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addiction
Posted Monday November 13 2006, 9:03 am
Has anyon out there had to deal with a man in your life with a sex addiction? any advice its killing me. Meaning porn, many women friends, lying videotaping downloading porn all the time.Help!! its killing our relationship
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This boy I like
Posted Monday November 13 2006, 2:21 am
Help! I need advice! Okay I like this boy and he is real awesome and I totally avoid him because I'm nervous but then he started doing the same thing so now I know he's likes me too also because his friend said the same that he liked me. What do I do to get him to talk to me because I know for sure I can't talk to him! Oh yeah I'm a girl and a teen.
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Too shy!
Posted Monday November 13 2006, 1:03 am
13/f. I've never had a boyfriend.
There is a guy I really like. But my flirting skills are horrible. I want to be able to confidently carry a conversation with him, or with any guy.
Like most girls, I tend to act very weird and tense, talk a lot and too fast. Occasionally try to make a witty joke- but failing.
I tell myself to just cool and calm down. I'm also extremely shy, and can never seem to start conversations.
What are some small things to do to help with my social and flirting skills?
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Boy Troubles :(
Posted Monday November 13 2006, 12:59 am
13/F: never had a boyfriend.
Well I have this guy friend, I'll call him Bob, I've know him for a very long time and I've heard he likes me. He asked me to the dance last year and I said yes, but I never dance at dances (very shy), so I told him that I couldn't. I did apologize that night.
I thought I blew it, but we're still good friends, and apparently Bob still likes me. He asked me to a movie about a month ago, and I said yes. Two problems here: I really don't like him in THAT way, and I thought he was asking me just as friends.
I'm feeling that it's too late to ask about it now, seeing as we haven't gone out yet, or even brought it up. I like another guy, and I'm afraid Bob thinks we're going out.
Wha...
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Is it right?
Posted Sunday November 12 2006, 10:24 pm
Im 15 and my boyfriend is 17 we have been dating since the 6th grade and he will be 18 in a couple of weeks! Are we going to have to brake up because he will be legal. I really love this guy and we have been together for 4ever! Whats a girl to do?
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Talking to Guys
Posted Sunday November 12 2006, 9:50 pm
What are some good conversations to have with guys (on the phone, in person, or on the computer)? I am always at a loss for words and conversations with them.
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How to ask a guy out? Part 2
Posted Sunday November 12 2006, 9:50 pm
When i ask him out should i be like" hey i was wondering if you would like to go see a movie with me?" or what should i say. Please help
13/f
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confused, i really really need help on this
Posted Sunday November 12 2006, 9:18 pm
Long story but to sum it up, i fell madly in love with this one boy. No one else is like him at all, but the thing is we're broken up. Its been five months, and now we're good friends agian, and we have classes together. We're kinda startin to hang out again, but i dont think he really is thinkin of us gettin back together. See like, when we were together, i wasnt showing him i loved him as much exactly as he loved me, and in a way with him carin for me so much i hurt him, just by like sometimes hanging out with my friends instead of him, never tellin him how i felt all the time. Well i love him, and now after5 months i know absolutely everything i did wrong, and i want to change it. I dont want to rush things, but with how much he 'loved' ...
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How do you look out for a cheating Boyfriend?
Posted Sunday November 12 2006, 8:29 pm
I'm thirteen years old and have been dating a really nice guy for about two months. I met him at the fair. He lives about thirty minutes away from me, and I see him almost every weekend. He never avoids me or says He doesnt have time for me, he isnt scared to show me PDA, and he doesnt talk about his girl friends much. But, I was talking to one of his friends, and he told me about this girl, who was my boyfriends best friend...and they live right beside each other. Her myspace is...weird. Where it says were she lives, she said a four letter word that starts with F, and then my city. I dont know...She isnt on his tops or anything, and I dont want to jump to a conclusion. If anyone could help, that'd be great!!
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