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Talking to Guys
What are some good conversations to have with guys (on the phone, in person, or on the computer)? I am always at a loss for words and conversations with them.
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I think being comfortable and saying whatever comes to mind keeps the conversation going, guys like openness, so if you're willing to be open and say whatever that comes to mind, it should work! Don't hold back...
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My guy friends and I usually talk about really random things online. Sometimes we talk about normal things like music, sometimes we talk about TV shows, or school. But then sometimes we'll talk about random things like tacos, or dogs, or whatever.
Also ask him about things he likes. Like HIS favorite band, or his hobbies. One of my friends is in a band, and that always gives us something to talk about. So, just get to know him. It's really not that hard ;]
-Laura. (16-f)
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hey there,
when I go on dates I always talk about stuff I'm into, then ask him. For instance, if you talk about the really awesome your-favorite-band- concert, see what he thinks of them. Then in turn ask him what he likes. As you move under the surface, into more deep in depth conversations, you can talk about their childhood, basically what made them who they are. ya know, its up to you, ask them what their plans are for college, or just the rest of their lives, you may be surprised what you find out. Also, you can talk to them about their favorite vacation, who there heros are, and what not.
Also, let them talk to, im a chatterbox, so thats something I had to learn.
All the best :)
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Just use random questions and tie them into your conversation. It can go from hi to hey, your interests and what do they like about that.
Mine is writing. In a "What's up" question, I always say I'm writing (I normally am, anyway) and if they say something one-wordy back, just use that to switch to maybe... using writing... "do you write?" or "yeah its about this... wanna help?"
Or just go with food. As one of the sites I gave you says, 99.9% of people LOVE food. So hop on that.
Also, make sure even if he gives one word answers, you DON'T.
-Calli
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hmm, thats a toughie. usually conversation just comes naturally if theres chemistry between you. just talk about your day, your plans for the next day, maybe theres a certain sport or tv show or something you both like, once you get talking things should come up ! good luck and i hope i helped =) let me know if you need anything else
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