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Boyfriend In Another State
Alrite, Well i have recently been talking to this guy in another state. (for about like 2 months now). so about a month ago he told me that he like realli had feelings for me and asked me to be his girlfriend and i agreed. well, i realli love him alot and it sounds like realli dumb but we have already talked about like,getting married and shit..well it sounds like a cute little fairy tale rite? WRONG! ok i was just talking to him like 10 min ago on MSN and i was like, "do your parents know about me" and hes like, "yea and they fully support me. do your parents know?" and im like, "not yet" and hes like, "well u know your going to have to tell them"
so my question is how do i tell my dad (i dont have a mom) that i fell in love with a guy i met on an on-line chat room? Oh Yea, Did I Mention I Am Only 14. So Yea, Im 14 in Love With a 16 year old i met online in a chat room that lives in another state.....how do i tell my dad?
Much Love,
Danigrl1621
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Okay, so how do you know you're in love with a 16 year old, how do you know it's not some 40 year old guy, or even woman. Chances are that you will deny this, but online relationships are not safe. Alot of sketchy people are out there on the web. I also do not understand how you can love somebody that you have never met, but hey, love's confusing right? So i think, if you truley are in love, you should start talking to him on the phone, getting to know him more personally, and making sure that he's not lying to you. Also if you have a webcam, try that and then you'll actually be able to see who you're talking to. Once you can be absolutly sre that he is real, tell you dad and have your dad speak to his parents. Then, meet him in a public place where there are a lot of people, like a popular restauraunt. Go with your father and his parents to make sure that everything is safe. I think that you could say this to your dad, tell him that you are completely in love, and hopefully he'll support you. good luck
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Ok...i dont think its possible to have an online relationship. I mean come on. You've never met so how are you going to get married? it sounds a little odd to me. Have you not heard about the criminals there are out there? It could just be a strange guy pretending to be 16, even if you think it isnt true. If i told MY dad i had a relationship with a guy i never met thats in a chat room thats 2 years older than me, i'd think he'd die. So..you may want to reconsider. I'm not trying to be mean and i know it sounds like i am but come on. A guy you never met and your in love with him? Just watch out when your in chat rooms, thats all i got to say.
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I don't believe in online relationships at all. !!! You cannot be in love with someone that you have talked to for two months online...you cannot be sure who he is. He could be a 40-year-old man. But anyways, do you think you dad will approve of this? If you don't think he would, it's not the right thing to do. As for your question...tell your dad that you have a boyfriend, but don't tell him about the internet part yet. And then when he asks you questions about him you can tell him. Hopefully he approves, for your sake, but I definately don't. Just saying. Good luck.
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