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confused, i really really need help on this
Long story but to sum it up, i fell madly in love with this one boy. No one else is like him at all, but the thing is we're broken up. Its been five months, and now we're good friends agian, and we have classes together. We're kinda startin to hang out again, but i dont think he really is thinkin of us gettin back together. See like, when we were together, i wasnt showing him i loved him as much exactly as he loved me, and in a way with him carin for me so much i hurt him, just by like sometimes hanging out with my friends instead of him, never tellin him how i felt all the time. Well i love him, and now after5 months i know absolutely everything i did wrong, and i want to change it. I dont want to rush things, but with how much he 'loved' me, his feelings have to come back. Lately he's been hanging out with other girls besides me, its gettin me sooooooo jealous, and like i cant say anything though, cause eh well ya know we're not talkin or together.
Boys i need your advice, or any girl who has been through this.
what should i do, i need to be with this kid.. in a way controls me but not litteraly, i even went through depression because of losing him.
so boys what would you do if you were in his situation and what would you want me to do for you?
and girls what have you done before to get a boy back.
thanks soo much for your help<3
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I have had many friends go through this. & I'm always there to help them. All of my friends have had long, bad, crazy, or good relationships before me. So I've learned from there mistakes & now my relationship is good. So, he's just trying to show you what it's like to just be friends. If you really loved someone you can never really get them out of your mind. & that's what he's doing. He's playing hard to get until you crack & tell him how you feel, but you can't let that happen. You'd fall into his trap just like he wanted you to. Trust me, I have one friend who falls into this boys traps everytime & something bad always happens. He takes control over her. You just need to keep being friends with him & hanging out with him as friends. That's all you can do at this point. & when you see him with other girls, just as friends, your first reaction is to get jealous. Any girls is. You just have to keep telling yourself that you're not together. Soon everything will fall into place because you're not cracking & telling him how you feel, so he'll do it. I'm not saying this will happen tomorrow, cause it won't. Give it time. Who knows how long it'll take. My friend had to wait 8 months for her ex to make up his mind. Now they're back together. If you want to talk about anything else you can just IM me: XO Love Rika.
Hope I helped.
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