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2 guys both like me n i like them both


Posted Sunday November 26 2006, 11:19 am

like *james* lives up my street but goes to a different school from me. Over the summer we got so close.I finally told him that i liked him and he said that he felt the same so i was like so should we start going out and he said not right at the moment because he couldnt see us holding hands because we just had a laugh with each other ( this doesnt make sence to me cause he said he likes me) now like 3 months have [passed and we both feel the same way still)
The second guy *darren* he goes to my school and has told my friends that he really likes me and i do like him but i dont no if its for the reasons i should i dont no wether its because i havent got anywhere with *james* but i i go out with *darren* it means i can't be as close t...

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Boyfriend


Posted Sunday November 26 2006, 9:45 am

I am having trouble finding gifts for my boyfriend because im not really sure what he wants. He plays guitar and video games a lot, but i dont have any money yet. Im hoping that my previous interviewer will say 'you got the job' and then ill have money, anyways.. He also likes frogs as well, but thats all i know. I dont want to give him a scrapbook of us or something related to love because he doesn't like that im pretty sure. If you have any ideas, please reply.

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I Don't Know What To Do!


Posted Sunday November 26 2006, 9:13 am

I'm 23 years old and I’m getting married in February, and everything is going perfect. I really love my fiancé, and we have so much in common like taste in music and movies. We both graduated from Columbia. My fiancé was born and raised in England, and I was raised in California. We met when I was at a launch party for the modeling agency I model for. His brother was the photographer for the agency. But here's the thing, he grew up in England’s high society. He's gone out with heiresses and girls a lot richer than I am, and I keep asking myself "why in the hell would he pick me? Why does he want to be with me when he can have any other women he wants?" Although he was a player before we were together. I was the first girl he...

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nervous


Posted Sunday November 26 2006, 1:41 am

everytime i see a cute guy i wanna introduce myself and everything but i get so shy and i cant get up the nerve to speak to him. my question is what should i do and how can i be less shy next time? my friend will say like come on lets go introduce ourselves then i say no lets not i really hate that im not confedent so what ca i do to be better at talking to boys that i like. i mean i have no problem talking to boys that i dont like or think are cute but when i like them or think they r cute i get all nervous and shy please help!!!

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He likes me but hasn't talked to me. Ever.


Posted Sunday November 26 2006, 12:09 am

15/f

There is a guy in my grade who 'is like in love with me' according to his friends. However, we have never talked or been introduced and do not have any classes together. The only time I see him is when we are in the halls. I was wondering, how can I get him to talk to me?

I would really like to meet him and I know he likes me.

I have previously asked this question but it was too long. Sorry for the repeat.

Thanks so much

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I don't know how to kiss a girl. . .


Posted Saturday November 25 2006, 11:36 pm

My girlfriend and I have been going out for over a year now and she is pretty upset with me for "being prude". I mean, just read some of the stuff she's said about me! "Whereas most guys would be drooling at the sight of a naked woman, Kurt would be covering his eyes in horror screaming, "It's not decent! It's not decent!" What is wrong with you, man? Loosen up and get a sense of humor." AND "I am all for taking it slow.... But like Ally said, we've been going out a long long time already. Don't you think it's a little unfair that he hasn't kissed me yet? Or even shown any sign that he wants to? It's killing me! I don't think he's into me like that. Or anyone! He's not GAY, I'd hope, but god! I don't want ...

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Falling Out of Love... in a lifetime commitment!


Posted Saturday November 25 2006, 11:20 pm

23/m
I got married young... while I was still in high school. Shannon wasn't pregnant, we just thought we were ready... probably because we both wanted to get away from our parents. We've had it good and we have a few kids now... but I'm not in love with Shannon anymore. I'm in love with one of my best friends, Tonya, who is also now married. I know things between Tonya and I won't work out, but if I'm not in love with Shan anymore, should we get a divorce? Am I just leading her on? Should we get counseling? I'm ready to let go. I'm done. But I don't want to break her heart... and what about the kids? They'll hate me. Please help me!

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my friend (jealousy)


Posted Saturday November 25 2006, 11:03 pm

I dunno why, but when my friend got her first boyfriend (yesterday) i really felt just depressed....then it's just gonna be awkward at school now and i feel really stupid. I guess it's cuz a lot of the girls have boyfriends and they constantly nag me about how come i don't have one. I really don't see it as such a big deal but now that my best friend has one i feel all alone (not because she won't spend time with me or anything) it's just an empty feeling i have...i really don't know what's wrong with me and i don't think it's jealousy because i really am happy for her...so please just whatever u think about this tell me....

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F/14 BOyfriend coming OVer


Posted Saturday November 25 2006, 10:35 pm

MY BF of two weeks is coming over tommorow and i AM FREaKING OUT!!! I HAVE NO CLUE WHAT WERE GONNA DO. I need help from everybody! What are we gonna do? Im really really really nervous around him and clam up and am uncomfortable i need ideas on waht to do and what movies to watch (LONG MOVIES.ANY HElp on waht to do/ how to act/ ad how to relaz would be VERY MUCH APPRECIATED

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dating


Posted Saturday November 25 2006, 9:28 pm

ok...

14/m

i have my first gf ever, we've been "together" for about a couple weeks now...we went to go see a movie today, and i sat next to her and everything, but i was too stupid to do anything...i.e., i didn't put my arm around her or anything...i know from her friends that she really likes me and i just am too nervous to make a move i think...i dunno tho...any advice?

thnks,
Sam

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Posted Saturday November 25 2006, 9:08 pm

15/F - Me
15/M - Dan

** - Note - The question is the last paragraph so you may not need to read the entire bulk of writing, however skimming through it will tell you what has previously happened and why I am asking the question. **

My school has a soccer academy program, the guys in the program take their own bus afterschool.

A few weeks ago myself and a friend were standing waiting for a ride when one of the soccer guys (who I know likes me) came up and said Dan liked me a lot. I said I didn't know who he was, although at that time I had seen Dan around once or twice. A few minutes later the soccer guys began yelling from their bus for me to come over and talk to Dan but I didn't.
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Should i be mad at this?


Posted Saturday November 25 2006, 6:56 pm

Ohk so i was dateing this guy "Fred" for about a month. Now i went away for a week.. durning this week me and Fred decided to take a break and let whatever happen happen. Well things from the start were awakward between us and i couldnt get the feel of making out with him. so we talking about it one night during that week and we broke upp. well the two days later my sister comes and tells me that Fred is taking to one of her best friends and they have something going on and for me to stay away. well i find out that they started talking the day before i broke up with him and then the day after i find out that they "hooked up" at the movies.. since i broke up with Fred should i be mad at all about this? becuase i am and i...

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Only sees me as a friend


Posted Saturday November 25 2006, 6:34 pm

hey im 14/m, i just like asked this girl i love out, weve been friends for a while and i think i do love her, either that or i like her beyond belief,i got the impression that she liked me to, which just built up false hope, well anyway i asked her out, and she rejected me, told me she only saw me as a friend
i was heartbroken, still am, my feelings for her havent changed, well heres my question, is there any way to make her see me as somthing else, like get her to see me in "that way"? please i love her.

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Posted Saturday November 25 2006, 5:34 pm

I want a boyfriend. I want more guy friends. Help! How can I achieve this goal?

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Coping with a breakup


Posted Saturday November 25 2006, 5:09 pm

I recently broke up with my boyfriend of 1 year and 7 months. Recently as in 3 days ago. Even though I was the one who broke it off, I still yearn to talk to him and see him and to have the friendship we used to have. He was my first boyfriend and I've never ever been as close to someone as I was to him. We did EVERYTHING together for the past year and a half. The reason we broke up is because he was very insecure with me and never let me go out with other guys. He says he's insecure because I wasn't open with our relationship, meaning I never really openly told people that I had a boyfriend. I think I was like that because he wasn't really the ideal boyfriend that I've always wanted, so I didn't treat him as well as i should have. For the...

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Christmas Present.


Posted Saturday November 25 2006, 5:07 pm

I would love to get something very nice for my best girl friend (I'm a guy). But I don't know what to get. To be honest, I've recently started liking her, so I kind of want the present to show that a little. Any ideas? Thanks!

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Two Boys, Two Dates, One weekend


Posted Saturday November 25 2006, 4:36 pm

I am 16/f a sophomore. Both the guys i am gonna talk about are 18/m seniors.

I had been "talking" to the one guy for a good two weeks, long night phone calls, a date, exchanging flirtacious banter, ect. He would even skip his class to come down and eat lunch with me. Then all of a sudden he stopped calling, and he kinda drew away. I waited for about 3 weeks, then i started talking to another guy.

This guy asked me to hang out last night, and it took almost the whole day to decide on a time. My parents had to drop me off and pick me up because he didnt want to drive. When i got to his house, we went to the basement to watch a movie. He layed all over me, and kissed me. But he kept kissin me and put his...

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I need Advice


Posted Saturday November 25 2006, 4:05 pm

i got this friend he is bi but he dont wont to come out the closet what should my friend do

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He says I am a b.....


Posted Saturday November 25 2006, 3:25 pm

My boyfriend tells me that I am a bitch most of the time, I feel like I cant control it. He just does stupid things without thinking and it irritates me so I get a pissy attitude. I mean, I try telling him..'Brandon take your time', or 'Why do you do that?' He gets my hopes up for many things and then right before we go to do them he says "oh, I didnt really think about this but.." and then comes the excuse..and this happens multiple times daily. I dont understand it. What should I do to stop letting this little crap get to me?

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I'm really scared!!


Posted Saturday November 25 2006, 12:20 pm

I'm really scared for my friend, she's going out with a guy who is like WAY older than her! SERIOUSLY OLDER by like, EIGHT or NINE years! well at least that's what she told me she might not REALLY be going out with him, she does lie a lot to get attention, but please i need advice to give 2 her

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