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He says I am a b.....
My boyfriend tells me that I am a bitch most of the time, I feel like I cant control it. He just does stupid things without thinking and it irritates me so I get a pissy attitude. I mean, I try telling him..'Brandon take your time', or 'Why do you do that?' He gets my hopes up for many things and then right before we go to do them he says "oh, I didnt really think about this but.." and then comes the excuse..and this happens multiple times daily. I dont understand it. What should I do to stop letting this little crap get to me?
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I'll be honest, it's not really going to stop. Men are mostly simple creatures that understand simple tasks. Example; yes, no, grunt, that sorta thing. Ha i should know. Although things happen bause we make em' happen, sorry to say but you can either put up with it or drop him ya know?
We can't change the way people are sometimes like the settlers tried to change the native american. OI we all know how that went right? My point being would be to just not let it get to you. The littler the problem is, the bigger it is when it gets under your skin. Hope this helps.
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so your boyfiend irritates you. so you know what to do about that just ignore it and let him think it doesnt bother you. or you could talk to him about and if he does not listen then break up wit him there is no need for him to be doing that.
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Yeah Boys can be like that. If he bugs you, he bugs you, there isnt much you can do. If there are tiny little things, then you can try and forget about them, but keeping things inside isn't very good either. You should try to only tell him on the things that bug you alot.
He has to learn that you are critical, and that criticism can be a good thing.
I think that if when he calls you a bitch it make upset, then you should ask him not to call you that.
But as far as your question, thats really hard. I don't think you can do something to make things stop bothering you. Maybe you should just know that its life and some people arent perfect.
Depending on how long you've been dating him, you could sit down and try and tell him the things that make you insane, and try and get him to work on five, and then you arent aloud to criticize him or something.
You can't hide the way you feel though because thats the way you feel, and if he can't understand that, and you are trying to change him, then maybe you two arent ment to be. What can I say that's life.
I hope that I helped, I know I'm critical as well, and it is hard to realize that sometimes things hurt. And you have to be careful no to hurt his feelings, but if he's lazy and not your type, then he's lazy and not your type.
Good luck, and I hope I helped.
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I think this is a situation that you should just get out of. If he irritates you that much, theres really no point in being in a relationship with someone who pisses you off. He bugs you, you get pissed, then he gets pissed. Its a lose lose situation, unless you BOTH can work something out, it always takes two.
So I highly suggest just breaking up.
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What a Horrid BF I am telling u girl B R E A K UP! with him if he does this stuff all the time and doesn't even care he isn't good enough for u! But if you want to put up with this guy I suggest ignore it or tell him TO S T O P it because it gets on your nerves and if he does to much you know what to do girl B R E A K UP!
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