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I don't know how to kiss a girl. . .
My girlfriend and I have been going out for over a year now and she is pretty upset with me for "being prude". I mean, just read some of the stuff she's said about me! "Whereas most guys would be drooling at the sight of a naked woman, Kurt would be covering his eyes in horror screaming, "It's not decent! It's not decent!" What is wrong with you, man? Loosen up and get a sense of humor." AND "I am all for taking it slow.... But like Ally said, we've been going out a long long time already. Don't you think it's a little unfair that he hasn't kissed me yet? Or even shown any sign that he wants to? It's killing me! I don't think he's into me like that. Or anyone! He's not GAY, I'd hope, but god! I don't want to talk to him about it. It would just turn into a big arguement even if it wasn't supposed to be." She said that on a forum where a bunch of our friends talk. . . Anyway, what am I supposed to do? Plus, I don't want her to think all I want is a physical relationship like most guys. She swears she will not make the moves because she says that's the guys job. Help me! I'm nervous and freaking out! All I can think of are worst scase scenerios!
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Tell her this.
It does seem a little strange that you haven't kissed her yet. So of course she's going to have some thoughts about this.
But just flat out tell her. I'm sure if she understands how you don't know how to kiss..she will most likely take the lead when you try to kiss her. It's going to feel awkward anyway..
Tell her you don't want her to think all you want is a physical relationship.
If you can't talk to her or anything, just write her a letter or something.. say that you're nervous and yeah.
If you haven't shown any sign or anything, she will just think like that. She likes you and whats you to show her that. So if you haven't done this already.. Just kiss her on the cheek.. and build your confidence up.. so you can kiss her on the lips.
Just tell her what you feel... it would make her understand.
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Just tell her flat out that you don't know how to kiss that well and that you don't want to mess up and make a fool out of yourself. I'm sure that if she really loves you, she'll understand and help you without spreading it around...but if you don't want...
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