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Only sees me as a friend
hey im 14/m, i just like asked this girl i love out, weve been friends for a while and i think i do love her, either that or i like her beyond belief,i got the impression that she liked me to, which just built up false hope, well anyway i asked her out, and she rejected me, told me she only saw me as a friend
i was heartbroken, still am, my feelings for her havent changed, well heres my question, is there any way to make her see me as somthing else, like get her to see me in "that way"? please i love her.
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hey it musta felt extreamly akward for her if you two are just friends,just try being her friend again.Do not talk about going out or anything because i know she probuly will ignore you.Just play it cool and wait a while and then start flirting with her .
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Just try and be her friend. DO NOT even mention going out or anything..when she's upset comfort her, when she's happy be happy for her. Just give it time, and she might see you as something more than 'just a friend'
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From a girls point of view:
She must've felt really awkward. She thought that you were her friend and nothing more and you felt the same and then to have a good friend ask her out...hmmm. She probably felt a little bit bad after rejecting you too.
The thing is that most girls want a guy best friend and in my case, I have one...and he's gay. Haha. Anywhos, you can't change what she feels and you've got to respect that. Just be the best guy friend you can be and think of this situation in this way:
would you rahter be her life long good friend or a boyfriend of few months only to result in being her ex and probably not regaining such a good frienship?
Good luck
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To start, I'm sorry that this girl does not like you the same way you like her. I'm a girl, and I know the feeling. Although this probably isn't what you want to hear, there's not much you can do to get her to see you in "that way". If you change yourself, you would be changing the person that that girl became friends with, and that won't help the situation at all. The best thing for you to do is to chill out for a few days-- hang out with your guy friends, get your mind off things, take some time to think. In about 3-5 days, tell this girl that you can settle with being just friends for now and that you hope your friendship can be just as great as before. If you don't talk to her, things will be awkward between you two until someone has the courage to make small talk. You never know-- in a few years, positions may be switched. Don't say "yeah, right," because that really does happen. [From a girl's point of view, guys get much hotter as they age from young teens to older teens. Not to say that looks are everything, of course.] Take things one day at a time. Good luck with everything.
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