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He likes me but hasn't talked to me. Ever.
15/f
There is a guy in my grade who 'is like in love with me' according to his friends. However, we have never talked or been introduced and do not have any classes together. The only time I see him is when we are in the halls. I was wondering, how can I get him to talk to me?
I would really like to meet him and I know he likes me.
I have previously asked this question but it was too long. Sorry for the repeat.
Thanks so much
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He's way to shy. You need to talk to him before he finds another girl. He may be hesitating to. Go up to him and say: Hey my name is___________. If you get to nervous have one of your friends come with you. Guys don't always have to make the first move. If you are to nervous to speak to him try to get his attention by wearing sumthing he might like, or just say hi to him. Its not what you say but having the courage to say sumthing. Maybe you can just give him a little smile. Walk past him many times and just smmile a little bit. He'll notice that your confidence has gone up, but just don't change for him.
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Ok..so you see him in the halls right? Smile at him. Then after doing that for a couple of days, if he hasn't had the courage to walk up to you and talk to you, walk by him and grab his hand, and put a note in it...either with your email address or phone number.
I'm sure he's more confident when your not infront of him, and then, give it a couple of days and you'll end up talking to each other in person.
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Ways to get him to talk to you....
1) Walk up to him completely nude
2) Grab his 'jank'
3) Walk up and say 'Hi, I couldn't think of a way to talk to you so I went online and somebody told me to say this.'
In all seriousness, this is the internet, and you just used it to get 'relationship assistance', you are officially a cybernerd and shouldn't associate with real people anyway.
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My dear, don't wait for him to talk to you. You go ahead and talk to me. Don't believe what his friends say because for all you know they're just joking around.
Just say hi in the hallways, stop if you have a minute and just talk to him and exchange a few sentences. See if he's in any of your lunches or if he's staying after school the same day you are (obviously for different reasons) Get his sn, email, or number and continue to talk to him.
Key thing is don't wait for him to approach you first because it seems like he's not gonna anytime soon.
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If you see him in the halls just try waving or just a simple "hello". If his friends say he's "in love" with you, I'm sure just a smile and a wave would make his day. If you guys have mutual friends, ask them if he wants to hang out with you all sometime. Since he has a crush on you, I'm sure he'll be up for hanging out.
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