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I need Advice
i got this friend he is bi but he dont wont to come out the closet what should my friend do
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Don't push him or anything. He just needs some time to figure it out. Some people actually like to be in the closet so just be there for him and accept his decision. There's nothing you can really do. Just don't go out telling people. They should hear it from him.
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It's okay for your friend to be bi. I'm bi and so are all of my other friends. I havent come out either though mostly because of family and school.
My family is a huge homophobe and that dissappoints me. My friends can't keep secrets so there is no way I'm going to tell them and the school, 80% of the students will mentally or physically abuse homosexuals so yeah.
But your friend should come out only if he is ready. Don't pressure him to come out or don't go around saying he's bi --not sayng that you will just saying. Just keep it a secret for him, have him come out when he's comfortable and if his parents are strict and don't accept homosexuality in the house, wait untill he's off to college or something to come out...
Have him IM me at r0ck0nl0ser if he wants to
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No matter what you do, make sure you take into account his feelings. He is probably unsure about his sexuality and it is an unstable topic for him.
Do not force him to tell anyone, when he is ready he will do it on his own.
For now just accept him for who he is.
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