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14/m
i have my first gf ever, we've been "together" for about a couple weeks now...we went to go see a movie today, and i sat next to her and everything, but i was too stupid to do anything...i.e., i didn't put my arm around her or anything...i know from her friends that she really likes me and i just am too nervous to make a move i think...i dunno tho...any advice?
thnks,
Sam
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You might just not be that comfortable yet to do that and it`s normal. Just try to hang out with her more and get to know her, and takes things slowly for now till your ready. When the moment is right, make the move. ;] Good luck. ♥
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yea i was like that to when i was first with my gurlfriend. u just have to give it time, and get used to haveing a gf. its akward at first but if u hold her hand or w/e once u'l get used to it
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ok if ya'll have been together for a couple weeks and you know for a fact that she really likes you, try to make the first move. if she's shy, chances are she won't make it *at least for a while*. Don't be too upfront with it...go slow. if you go see a movie just kinda joke around with her...play and bump your leg into hers a few times. if her arm/hand is on the arm rest, have your hand right next to it and maybe "accidentally" bump into it a few times. if she does it back and even gets closer, then go in for the kill. but if she moves away, then don't press it because if you do, she'll just get mad. just go with the flow and whatever happens happens =] if you need anything else lemme know!!
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Haha. I have to say this:: awww that is so cute XD
Anywhos, note that when you go to a movie, you don't want to sit there not touching her in one way or another (keep in mind I'm talking in G rated way) Next time you go to a movie or go out on a date or something, hold hands with her, put your arms around her shoulder or waist or just talk to her a lot. And if she says she's cold she means to keep her warm by either putting your arm around her shoulder or giving her your jacket. Don't sit there and say that sucks or say i'm cold too. lol
Just be sweet and nice and nothing perverted like grabbing her thighs...XD
Don't be nervous because she is as nervous as you are and if you don't make a move, she might get fed up with that. If she puts her head on your shoulder, let her. If she leans back, hold her. Just make a move or let her make a move but you should really make a move frist. Don't be nervous because no girl in their right mind wouldn't want their bf to hug them
Have fun!
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