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Female, Age 37 - PTSD, Agorophobia, Losing my Life; Can you Help?


Posted Wednesday October 27 2010, 9:51 am

My story is too long to fit in this message, so I can't explain the reasons WHY I've fallen into this, but I can describe where "this" is. What this is.

I'll try to keep it short but I have trouble with that, because I type like I talk - it just comes out. So I'll try.

I have PTSD and Agorophobia. I have scoliosis, sciatica, and cervical facet syndrome. I am in pain all the time, and I'm afraid to leave my bedroom.

I mother my children from here. They're good kids - I'm doing ok there. But I'm losing my job. I'm a contractor and work from home. I can't go to the office. They still give me work, but it's intermittant. When I don't have work - I don't get paid. The work is dwind...

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Stimulating the clit


Posted Wednesday October 27 2010, 12:56 am

I am a 65 year old male that doesn't know much about sex and relationships so I thought I would ask and maybe try this once to see if it was appealing to both of us.
Is it better to stimulate the clitoris with a finger or through oral sex with the tongue?

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not a regular fight.


Posted Wednesday October 27 2010, 12:05 am

me and my boyfriend of 3 years were fighting today about how i gave him 10 dollars and i was going to go get my paycheck after droping him off his friends house but ended up that my paycheck was not in so i needed that ten to get this dress. i asked for it a little upset becuase of my work being stupid. and he was like i spent it and i fliped i was like on what and he wouldnt tell me so im freaking out bcause he wont tell me then he called me names and i threatened him about stuff and now he says its over. well we have fought before but he says he cant do it anymore and i understand but im begging for him here crying and he says he doesnt want me right now and that he doesnt want to see me but cares about me and loves me and im really confu...

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could i get in trouble?


Posted Tuesday October 26 2010, 11:16 pm

19/f i just did something really stupid. well i just emailed this girl's mom on facebook and told her that her daughter use to harasses me in high school and afterward. well she blocked me. and then i sent her another message for a different facebook account telling her that she can block me and defend what her daughter does but that's why she's such a brat. i mean it's true that girl did whatever she wanted. she did drugs and got pregnant. and then i said she needed to teach her daughter some manners and that if her daughter ever harasses me again im going to the police to file a report and press charges, because her dauhter bugged me on facebook, myspace, and at school. she told people i started it with her and everyone hated me. i know i...

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more then friends i think not????


Posted Tuesday October 26 2010, 10:43 pm

okay all my friends say that i should go out with another friend i have you see cause were always getting into fights that dont last more then a day and everyone says we should just get togeather but idk if i like him like that and then we sit togeather and when we fight i tell him to leave but he never leaves and he always tells me he loves me and hes always with me and they say he tries to make me jelous by talking about my cuz that he hasnt seen and my bestfriend now is that a crush or is he just weird like that ???????

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online suit creator/designer


Posted Tuesday October 26 2010, 9:55 pm

i was on this site a long time ago where you can like edit suits like the color and style and stuff and now i cant find it..can someone help me find one?

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Abusive relationship ! Help..!


Posted Tuesday October 26 2010, 9:22 pm

I'm 15/f and my bf is 17... sorry if this is long bt i really need help..
okay so i have a daughter she is my world she will be two tommorrow and my bf (baby daddy) abuses me everyday for no reason we live together i got kicked out of my house when i was 13 my mom died when i was 12 and my dad wanted nothing to do with me so i moved in with my bf Dametrious i love him so much we have been threw hell we been together for three years. he hits me hard he leaves bruises and scares yesterday he burned me with the iron i have tears running down my face as i write this he hurts me really bad he got mad because some guy texted me saying that he got my numb off of myspace and my didnt believe him ! im scared that if i keep letting him hurt me...

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Where and how to meet guys?


Posted Tuesday October 26 2010, 9:18 pm

17/f.

I just never seem to meet anyone. I know so many people that are always seeing various guys, but my love life, for the majority of the time is pretty much non-existent. I always kind of think that someday someone will come along, but I've been thinking that for years and it hasn't happened. It's not that I'm unattractive - I receive a lot of male attention, and am always told by guys that I'm very attractive. But I just never seem to meet anyone that amounts to anything.

Which places would you say do a lot of guys hang out? And what are the kind of places where everybody mingles and gets to know each other? I feel like wherever I go, I don't really mingle with anyone, and if I do, it doesn't turn into any...

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How to tell a guy you just want to be friends?


Posted Tuesday October 26 2010, 8:26 pm

Okay so I kind of got myself in a bad situation with 2 guys that really like me. I guess I've been leading them on but I don't like either of them. I just got a boyfriend that they don't know about yet and I really don't know how to tell them without them getting mad and not wanting to be friends. I'm the kind of person that can not hurt peoples feelings and I can't tell them straight up. When I tried talking to one guy he said he'd drive himself in the ground if he saw me with another guy. Help me please I really like my boyfriend and I don't want to him to get mad if I can't get rid of these other guys but I'm just too nice:( oh and I'm a 16 year old girl. Haah

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Battery Handling!


Posted Tuesday October 26 2010, 5:53 pm

I've decided to buy a voice recorder in this last year of high school since I'm struggling now and it'll be good for university anyways if I make it. Abd I haven't used batteries since like my toddler days for those loud toys. And I don't want to leave batteries in the voice recorder when i'm not even using it and I know from school that if you keep it in your pocket it'll like burn through. So what can i hold 2 AA batteries in for temporary storage until I place them back in? (Hate batteries, so expensive and bad for the environment! But all voice recorders must have them...)

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Taylor Swift


Posted Tuesday October 26 2010, 4:48 pm

Hi guys, well taylor swifts new album is out,and I can't buy the album because my car dosent have a cd player but im trying to find the prelude on her album speak now its the writing in the beginning my friend had it and i loved it. Does anyone know where i can find it online or if they have it could you type it for me possibly?

Thank you ive been looking for it all day! :)

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a guy that i think robbed me


Posted Tuesday October 26 2010, 3:56 pm

Okay, I was dating this guy for about a year. Long story short. I was at his house the night i was robbed. My furniture, washer, dryer,iron and some jewelry was taken from me. I could not believe that he stole from me he seemed to be so sincere. He even helped me with bills and cooked and cleaned for me. I know he didn't do it personally , but i do believe he sent some guys to my house to take my things. So, i left him alone for a good six months now hes back to calling me again. I'm trying to be JUST friends with him, now he is offering me to come over and hang out, spend time with him. My question is what should i do? Of course he tells me he had nothing to do with my house getting broken into, but my gut is telling me otherwise.

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I want to do manstrubation


Posted Tuesday October 26 2010, 2:42 pm

I am 16 and i want to manstrubate. what is the best way? and i am not to familiar with my "private parts". please help me!

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does this costume look dumb?


Posted Tuesday October 26 2010, 2:23 pm

http://www.spirithalloween.com/images/spirit/products/processed/01025188.zoom.a.jpg

im wearing this for halloween and im kind of second guessing it. let me know what you think

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Getting my ex-boyfriend's party busted by the cops?


Posted Tuesday October 26 2010, 1:37 pm

ok so my ex boyfriend who is a total asshole is having a house party this weekend and i want to call the cops on it and get it busted. there will be underage drinking. i am not against underage drinking or anything but i do hate him and want to get back at him after he sent nude pictures of me around after our break up. so my question to you guys is whether anyone could find out that i did it. i wont tell anyone i did, but could they some how find out it was my number who called in? i really want to avoid drama which is why i dont want anyone to know. also do i just call 911? i am positive i want to call the cops and get it busted, i just dont know exactly what to do.

if you guys knew him you would hate him too. total douche bag.



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An Emergency Problem With My Ears


Posted Tuesday October 26 2010, 1:37 pm

For about five months, I've been dealing with a problem with my ears. It started with the left ear and it was swollen and painful. Then it began discharging a yellowish puss, coming out so rapidly it would be on my pillow the next morning. I went to the dr and he gave me antibiotics. They didn't work. Because I have no insurance and pay out the pocket for visits, I tried to deal with it. Ended up in th er and was given different antibiotics. Pain had disappeared from the left ear and then my right ear began discharging even more harshly than the left ever had! Now it hurts, mostly when I wake up in the morning, but my ears are both clogged with this dried up puss which I try to clean out daily. Needless to say the antibiotics I received at ...

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Microsoft word how do I turn on spell check? I need to check spelling and grammar!


Posted Tuesday October 26 2010, 12:15 pm

I have the latest microsoft word, and its very complicated. I just wanna know how to activate the thing that gives you spelling correction, when that red line appears when you spell something wrong or when you have grammar mistakes.

I have a very important project to do in like 6 hours, please help me.

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What you expect in a relationship


Posted Tuesday October 26 2010, 9:37 am

I am trying to figure out objectively what I should expect from a man I am in a relationship with, and what are things I might not be able to expect because some men just aren't that way. I am not materialistic or selfish, I am in fact the opposite. So certain things in my relationship I would like to see more of and I want to know if what I want is the same as what other women expect too. What are some things your man or a past boyfriend has done that you loved? And what are some things you wish your boyfriend or previous boyfriend would have done? Did the things you wish he would do effect your relationship negatively?

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Why Do Men Watch Porn?


Posted Tuesday October 26 2010, 9:33 am

This is for guys, but if a women has asked their boyfriend or husband the same thing and can answer this, feel free to answer too. Why do men watch porn if they are in a relationship?

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Unappreciated... Always Giving and Never Getting Anything Back


Posted Tuesday October 26 2010, 9:31 am

This is pretty long if I go in detail so I will try to sum it up for you. I am 21 years old and my boyfriend is 22. I have been dating my boyfriend for almost a year and a half now. We rarely fight and if we do they are for legitimate reasons. But one thing that has bugged me since we started dating was his lack of showing me he loves me. I am not materialistic and I don't expect to be bought things all the time and wined and dined. But I do expect him to show some love on days like my birthday or Valentines Day, and our One Year Anniversary. My birthday we had been dating four months and he got me nothing and even threw a tantrum saying he was tired when we went out to celebrate my 21st when it was only 11 PM and we had been out for one ho...

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