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Abusive relationship ! Help..!
I'm 15/f and my bf is 17... sorry if this is long bt i really need help..
okay so i have a daughter she is my world she will be two tommorrow and my bf (baby daddy) abuses me everyday for no reason we live together i got kicked out of my house when i was 13 my mom died when i was 12 and my dad wanted nothing to do with me so i moved in with my bf Dametrious i love him so much we have been threw hell we been together for three years. he hits me hard he leaves bruises and scares yesterday he burned me with the iron i have tears running down my face as i write this he hurts me really bad he got mad because some guy texted me saying that he got my numb off of myspace and my didnt believe him ! im scared that if i keep letting him hurt me then he will hurt my daughter too !! he slaps me in front of her calls me a bitch he spit in my face i have no where to turn what do i do? i have no family!! and all my friends cut me off when they found out that i was preg. ohh ya and my bf cheats on me all the time like about a week ago he brought some girl named asia over our house and told her i was his sister and my daughter was his niece !!!! wtf?? im really crying right now how could he do this to me ? and after that he went upstairs and had sex with her i know because you could hear them !!! what do i do !!!! help !
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I would like to start off by saying i am so sorry. It sounds like you have been through hell and your boyfriend is putting you through even more hell! The reason he keeps pushing you is because you let him. And the fact that he hits you in front of your two year old daughter is even worse. She knows what is going on and you cannot let her grow up thinking that it is okay for men to hit women. I know it will be hard to leave him because your scared and really dont have anyone and you have been with him for so long. But if you stick around he could end up hurting you even worse than he already has and it could even get bad enough that he could kill you. He is cheating on you too, it sounds like he is just using you hunny. This is a terrible thing for him to do but that is what it sounds like. You need to get your daughter and your things and get the hell out of there! There are shelters and many places that will take you in. Maybe start by going to the police and they can help you find a place to stay.
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oh my word okay i'm sure you don't want to hear this but you really need to leave him he treats you this way because he knows that you have nowhere else to go and the fact that he is hitting you in front of your two year old daughter will really really affect her later on in life and she will probably behave in the same manner please for the sake of your child try to find woman shelters around where you stay you really don't deserve to be treated this way your boyfriend is a real JERK if you continue staying with him he would most probably end up killing you please try and seek help there are many organisations that can help you nobody should live this way
i'm really sorry
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Go to google. Search your city and state followed by the words "women's shelter". Go there and tell them everything you've told us here. There are people out there to help you, and at 15 you really need help. Get the fuck out of that house, take the kid with you. Your boyfriend will destroy both you and your daughter if you allow it. Take action to save yourselves now.
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You leave there are programs that help you find homes that are based off your income if you have no income then its free. there are programs that help you pay electric. go to the police station with your daughter. file a police report let them take pictures of the bruises i would even call the cops when he hurts you so its on file. but you need out NOW. your daughter is hurting every day seeing that she is 2 years old she knows. my son is 3 and knows when im sad happy angry she does to. do you want her growing up thinking its ok for a man to beat her. you need to try conntacting some of your family there are many options other then staying in a situation like that.
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