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Valentines Day
Posted Thursday January 11 2007, 6:09 pm
Yes i know it's only January 11 but i'm already thinking of Valentine's Day. i'm 16 years old and my boyfriend and i have been going out for about 8 months. i'm trying to think of what to do for valentines day for him. i want to make him something because i'm a crafty person. anyone have any ideas of cute things to do? i have an idea of one thing im going to do ( it's a scrapbook sort of thing) but any others? thankss!
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this guy says he likes me but im not sure
Posted Thursday January 11 2007, 6:03 pm
theres this kid that i've been talking to for a couple of months now. i think i like him and my friends say he likes me.. or thats what he tells them. but my best friend told me that he is a player and if we ever do go out the relationship wont last long. and she isnt a big fan of him. what should i do?
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im shy and he is shy..what do i do?
Posted Thursday January 11 2007, 5:23 pm
hey im a 15/f
I have yet to have a boyfriend or a kiss or anythign like that. Okay so my problem is that I am very shy in school. Outside of school i am so outgoing and bubbly when Im with my friends and stuff you know? I have liked this kid that sits in front of me in one of my classes for about a year now. My friends keep on telling me to talk to him but its sooo hard for me because of my shyness. And what makes it even worse is that he is shy as well! I want to get the guts to talk to him though but im scared that he wont want to talk to me or that he will think that i am ugly. I dont think i am the uglyest thinkg out there but i dont think im pretty. (lets just say i have no self confindence what so ever! ) my friends al...
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confused about guys
Posted Thursday January 11 2007, 3:43 pm
heyy well ill cut to the chase. i have a boy friend and weve been going out for 2 months and i love him sooo much ... but i went on vacation a lil while ago and i cant seem to get this one guy out of my head. the guy and i didnt talk that much but when we did i could tell he had something for me just by the way he smiled but i would never do anything with him cause i love my boyfriend. the thing is idk what to do now i talked to the kid on the computure and he told me that i caught his attention the most and if he didnt get with a girl while we were away that he would of talked to me more and when i told him i had a boyfriend he said the girls he liked always do and i feel bad cause i dont like making ppl feel bad... like ill be in class an...
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Is he controlling?
Posted Thursday January 11 2007, 2:32 pm
I don't know if my boyfriend is controlling. He wants to know where I am and who I'm with at all times. He says he loves me all the time and he wants to get married when I turn 18. I'm just about to turn 17. He wants all my time and he calls me a million times a day and expects me to spend all my free time with him. I don't think hes controlling, but I'm not sure. I love him though. How can I tell?? Is there any certain way?? Please help me figure this out.
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About him...
Posted Thursday January 11 2007, 12:31 pm
13 going on 14/f
kay, im pretty sure that some of ya`ll had read my enteries about him lately .. my bestfriend i fell for him .. he likes my bestfriend and my bestfriend likes him back also.. so i had let her have him, yeah okay .. so on w/ the story. i like this guy a whole lot.. and my bestfriend my "twinnie" cause we have so much in common & we're so much alike that's why we call ourselves twinnies.. so then yeahh my twinnie knows that i like him too .. but then each day when i talk to her, it seems like she cares less and less everyday.. she says that shes taking risks to be w/ him .. including losing her friends except for me.. but she doesn't know how much this is hurting me.. js thinking about it makes me...
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boy talk - what the?
Posted Thursday January 11 2007, 6:37 am
19F - he's 24 - there is this guy that works at a company that my company deals with... i speak to him regularly for work stuff... at the christmas party we went out clubbing and made out... i REALLY like this guy, like seriously, as in get butterflies in my tummy when i hear his voice. when we were out he said i'm too good for him. we have spoken through work many times since then but havn't mentioned that night. i really wanna ask him out or something but i dont know if he likes me and i dont wanna make things awkward at work. what do i do? help!
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i dont get it
Posted Wednesday January 10 2007, 11:59 pm
so i have a boyfriend. he loves me and tells my im amazing/gorgeous/beautiful and everything a girl loves to hear on a regular basis. we've been together over a year. he says he loves my body. the thing is, i dont love it. at all. i mean yeah i have big boobs but thats about it. im overweight (5'9" about 251 lbs, size 18 pants and 3x shirt). im completely disgusted with my body but somehow he finds me beautiful and almost has me thinking maybe its true. but how do i see myself the way he sees me? i believe that he thinks so but im just like "ugh...why?". he wants me to be self confident but its like i just cant. im ahnee on advicenators if you want a pic (its small though)
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swimming
Posted Wednesday January 10 2007, 11:41 pm
13/F
i take advanced swimming lessons and my teacher keep asking me to join the team but all i do is say i'll think about it.i want to join because there's a competition in march that takes place in my ex-boyfriend hometown,so i wanna join so i could see him again(to hopefully not beat the crap outta him if i do)but i don't because i would have to practice like 6 or 7 days a week and i live far from where practice is and i wouldn't be able to get a ride.so my question is what should i do?
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Mi friends crazi bout 2 bois.n now she wont go wit no one ku
Posted Wednesday January 10 2007, 11:37 pm
Ok so thisz aint about me as yu can see..mi friend lets call her *Nicole* shesz 16. well she had a first love letsz call him *Fred* but he left her aftr a year got hooked up with her ex best friend nd got her prego...wellp she tried othr guysz but culdnt do it kuz she onli thought about her frst love *Fred* thn about 1 year nd a half later or so her Best guy friend hooked her up wit hisz kuzin letsz call him *Henry* she fell fer him tha second she saw him.. they started goin out nd it was like a fairy tail....he sed she was soo special nd tht she was hisz babi grl...she saw in hisz txt messagesz tht he wasz still tlkin to hisz ex...she mentioned it nd he sed she wont stop tlkin to him so she believed him...thn around christmas time he stopp...
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Boy Problems or is It Me
Posted Wednesday January 10 2007, 11:30 pm
right know im single...i want a boyfriend...but i dont know what to do,how to act,or what to say to them. i was hoping i would be a perfect girlfriend for my last 3 boyfriends, but i guess i was wrong because they didnt last very long. i think its because i freeze up and just backfire when im with them. im always so shy with them and i dont know how to act...i want a boyfriend bad but i dont know whats wrong with me please help me out!!! I want guys to see me as a beautiful confident girlfriend.
how do i keep a good relationship while not being so shady with the boys?
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Cute little things...
Posted Wednesday January 10 2007, 11:04 pm
What are some cute little things i can do for my boyfriend. We've only been dating about 3 months, so its nothing THAT serious..but i want us to last..
Any cute things i can do? like notes in his locker and stuff like that?
Thanks a bunch!
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a guy that i like but he doesnt
Posted Wednesday January 10 2007, 9:00 pm
I am 15f and there is this guy at school i like we hang out and everything but i feel he is not feeling me like i am He always has a girl name stacy written in his thing. Ya me and this guy have kissed and he acts like nothing happen. ut somethimes i feel he only wants SEX and i am not going to give him sex not know or never. i dont know what to do i really like him but i have this feeling he doesnt. Even though he is always hugging me i just feel he does it to play around with me. Ya one time he told me that he liked me and wanted to go around with me but he was all missed up with drugs that day so i didnt believe him. What should i do should i stop calling him or what i really need HELP i just cant stop thinking about this guy Oh and the ...
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i dont know what to do
Posted Wednesday January 10 2007, 8:42 pm
I know my boyfriend is sick right now. but im really upset. i havnt talked to him in a while. i mean, if i was sick i'd still come online and talk to him. but he doesnt. its like he doesnt care. he tells me all the time he does. but then hes always out with his friends. also one day he came to my house, but said he had to go eat dinner at 6 and he'd be on the computer, but he went to his friends after, and wasnt home until 9. another thing like this happend also. he said he wasnt allowed over because his parents wanted him home. but he was allowed at his friends house all day. and not to mention i live 10 minutes away. i got all these mixed feelings. it hurts. i love him alot though..
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dreams
Posted Wednesday January 10 2007, 8:33 pm
I have dreams about the same kid everynight, no matter what.
He's in it , like 6 out of 7 days a week.
Is that weird?
and Another thing, I had a dream about this random boy who Ive only had one dream about and the day after that dream, he came up to me and told me I was in his dream the same night.
Is that freaky or what?
It scared me alot
Thanks 14/f
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phone.
Posted Wednesday January 10 2007, 8:25 pm
okay, so monday night i called this guy. i liked this guy since like..november, and i really wanted to tell him that i had feelings for him. it took guts to call him, but when i did, he didn't pick up the phone and had to leave him a voicemail w/ my house number (cuz my cell got shut off). for some reason, whenever i finially get the guts to do something (even if its almost) i feel 10x better about it and i feel like i actually did something. but i didn't. then i was waiting for him to call me back, and he did last night but for some reason i wasn't around to answer it. i want to tell him how i feel. i just want to get it all out so i don't have to worry about it so much anymore. but how do i do it? i mean, i don't want to be so upfront abo...
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so he's my friend
Posted Wednesday January 10 2007, 7:19 pm
so there's this guy, and we're really good friends, i mean since like kindergarden, our parents even do stuff together. well lately i have been starting to notice i really like him. i don't know how to get him to like me back, without asking him out, any advice?
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i'm afraid
Posted Wednesday January 10 2007, 7:08 pm
oay i really love this guy but i know he doesn't know that i do still love him he thought i got over him and i know he would freak if he still knew.....and i'm scred to tell him becsue it might ruin our friendship....how do i keep my felling "on th down low" without hurting inside becasue i hate knowing that he doesn't know but I CAN"T TELL him....very confusing story and i don't wnat to explain it...what do i od?
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let him know that im into him?
Posted Wednesday January 10 2007, 6:58 pm
i really dont know what to do...i really really really like this guy and he's always in my mind forreal i think i've fallen head over heels for him. he went out with one of my friends and i kinda had feels for him last year i thought i got over but this year im just totally into him. its strange because i dont know why i like him its just that something is getting me. me and him have been talking and hes always askin me to go to things to cheer him on but i never get the time to go. so theres this big ball and im going because my friends invited me and i think that hes going and i've asked him already and he said he might be going. theres this other girl that really into him and hes sorta into her too. well hes sorta a big flirt. i dont kno...
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who tells me the truth
Posted Wednesday January 10 2007, 6:51 pm
15/F
I broke up with this boy about 2 months ago. And we stayed friends and we talk. 1 of our friends says he talks about me all the time. She says he tells her good things about me all the time. He says he doesn't like me anymore, but she tells me different! Who should I believe? Does he tell me no because he doesn't want me to know or does he really not like me. I can I find out???
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