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let him know that im into him?
i really dont know what to do...i really really really like this guy and he's always in my mind forreal i think i've fallen head over heels for him. he went out with one of my friends and i kinda had feels for him last year i thought i got over but this year im just totally into him. its strange because i dont know why i like him its just that something is getting me. me and him have been talking and hes always askin me to go to things to cheer him on but i never get the time to go. so theres this big ball and im going because my friends invited me and i think that hes going and i've asked him already and he said he might be going. theres this other girl that really into him and hes sorta into her too. well hes sorta a big flirt. i dont know i want to kinda tell him that i like him but i dont want to mess things up. its just i dont want to keep waiting for him to do something. if i dont straight up tell him i was just gonna ask him what he thinks about girls tell him they like him? please just help me because i really cant do this anymore... sorry its soo long...
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This is a better situation than you might think. You have an "in" with him and it's attending these games. Ask him when the next one is and make a habit of going. Why? He's testing you and putting out feelers to see if you like him. Odds are he feels the same way but inside rejected or feeling you do not like him back because you never go.
See what attending a few games and talking to him afterwards does for you. Obviously, he is not into this other girl who is a real flirt as more than a friend/aquaintence if he has not made a move for her as he's not stupid and can see what she's doing. He's probably waiting for you but won't be much longer unless you show interest back.
When it comes to the dance just ask him if he has found a date yet? If he hasn't then you can tell him (even if it's a lie) that nobody has asked you and you were A) not going to go or B) wondered if you could go as friends? That should solve things.
Try to get to know him and include him in parties, habging out etc and over time see if you have something you can turn into a relationship. It's up to you to make a move as he already has by inviting you to cheer him on. Trust me, no guy is going to invite a girl he is not friends with to cheer him on unless it's a girl he's interested in.
He's probably giving you a maybe on the whole dance thing because he feels you snubbed him over the games he invited you to and may wonder why has she taken so long? now she wants to be around me because she doesn't have a date... etc. Who knows what's going on in his head but you need to start making moves to figure out if you should spend any more time thinking about him.
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ask him if he wanna go wit you and if he looks a bit shocked say as friends.jus so you can have a reason to spend the night with the prince cinderella.and if the night isn't goin where you want it to try to make it at least get on the same road for where you wanna go if it's not no matter how hard you try give up or if you try to hard you'll lose him as a friend and don't care wat he thinks he's just in our life temporarily he's not apart of it
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