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confused about guys


Question Posted Thursday January 11 2007, 3:43 pm

heyy well ill cut to the chase. i have a boy friend and weve been going out for 2 months and i love him sooo much ... but i went on vacation a lil while ago and i cant seem to get this one guy out of my head. the guy and i didnt talk that much but when we did i could tell he had something for me just by the way he smiled but i would never do anything with him cause i love my boyfriend. the thing is idk what to do now i talked to the kid on the computure and he told me that i caught his attention the most and if he didnt get with a girl while we were away that he would of talked to me more and when i told him i had a boyfriend he said the girls he liked always do and i feel bad cause i dont like making ppl feel bad... like ill be in class and just sit there and hell pop up in my head and ill laugh but i dont like him like that i just dk wat to do........

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sizzlinmandolin answered Thursday January 11 2007, 8:25 pm:
shortcake90 is right. He's guilt tripping you. He's trying to make you feel bad for him so that you go out with him.

"if he didn't get with a girl while we were away"
He seems like he could be somewhat of a player too. If he were really that interested in you he would have tried to make a move on you, or at least talked to you more, not been with some other girl.

It's always nice to get attention. It's always nice to be liked by someone. It feels good. However, you can't let that feeling get in the way of what you already have. What you have with your boyfriend seems really special. Don't compromise your relationship with him by letting this other guy into your life too much. Your boyfriend hasn't done anything wrong. There doesn't seem to be any reason to even think about leaving him.

Forget about this guy. He seems like nothing but trouble. Good luck. :)

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shortcake90 answered Thursday January 11 2007, 5:24 pm:
hey alright well, ahah first of all guys are amazing at playing with your feelings. the part where he said "all the girls i like have boyfriends" is just a line to GET u to feel bad,you see what im saying? trust me, the only reason your thinking of this new guy is because its something different from your boyfriend. just let it pass, it probably doesnt mean anything. so DONT WORRY =)

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runawayxlove answered Thursday January 11 2007, 4:51 pm:
hey, well you have some kind of feeligns for that guy if you keep thinking about him. put yourself first. dont force yourself to like that guy or tell him that you dont if its not true. a) youll hurt him and lead him on and b) you laways put yourself first before anyone else so even if you hurt his feelings its what you really want.

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