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confused about guys

Question Posted Monday August 10 2009, 10:46 pm

heyy well ill cut to the chase. i have a boy friend and weve been going out for 2 months and i love him sooo much ... but i went on vacation a lil while ago and i cant seem to get this one guy out of my head. the guy and i didnt talk that much but when we did i could tell he had something for me just by the way he smiled but i would never do anything with him cause i love my boyfriend. the thing is idk what to do now i talked to the kid on the computure and he told me that i caught his attention the most and if he didnt get with a girl while we were away that he would of talked to me more and when i told him i had a boyfriend he said the girls he liked always do and i feel bad cause i dont like making ppl feel bad... like ill be in class and just sit there and hell pop up in my head and ill laugh but i dont like him like that i just dk wat to do........

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Professor_Kaos answered Tuesday August 11 2009, 3:23 am:
I think that it's a mistake by keeping things too friendly with the 2nd guy. It's tempting and seems nice to keep in touch. But as you do there is always going to be this part of you open to the idea of being with him. You really need to limit that or cut that out. If you ever break up with your boyfriend you can always get in touch with guy number two. But at the moment you are kind of juggling affection for 2 guys. It happens. It's just always fun when there is a spark with someone new. But when things are that way, it's really easy to get in over your head. It's likely guy number two could persuade you to hang out. Before you know it, you're making out on the couch and who knows? Some distance and time is really the way to go for now.

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anonymous99 answered Tuesday August 11 2009, 12:45 am:
Well first of all, I'd like to say it's nice to know there's someone still out there that actually cares about others' feelings.

Anyway, this is an area where a lot of people will get hurt. If for some reason you did do something, in the end all 3 of you would end up hurt. I admit that I don't have much experience from your position because I spent way too long trying to get a certain person to realize I exist, but my advice to you is to think of how happy you are with your boyfriend.

And remember, love is attained by knowing someone and caring for them for a long period of time - generally years. So even if you thought it was "love at first sight," it was just "lust at first sight.) No, that isn't an insult, but a fact.

Remind yourself that the guy will meet someone else.

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