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boy talk - what the?
19F - he's 24 - there is this guy that works at a company that my company deals with... i speak to him regularly for work stuff... at the christmas party we went out clubbing and made out... i REALLY like this guy, like seriously, as in get butterflies in my tummy when i hear his voice. when we were out he said i'm too good for him. we have spoken through work many times since then but havn't mentioned that night. i really wanna ask him out or something but i dont know if he likes me and i dont wanna make things awkward at work. what do i do? help!
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Take a chance and ask him out.
Don't worry what his response may be or what he's thinking about you.
Live for the moment.
Because for all you know, he could have the same thoughts goin through his mind "Does she like me?", "Am I her type?", etc.
But one of you must step outside your comfort and make a move. Otherwise you'll just be stuck on liking him.
So I say GO FOR IT and see what happens from there.
Good luck. If you need any more advice feel free to send me a message.
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Hi, my advice to you -- first, get to know him more. Then, you will be more comfortable around him and see if you can really trust him. Being as without trust in a relationship, you have nothing. After getting to know him better, then I would definitely ask him on a date. And you can see how things progress from there. :)
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Ask him to go out sometime, just to hang out. And if something happens, make sure you ask him 'why' it happened. See what he has to say about it. I know he said you were too good for him, but maybe he'll realize that you and him could make something work out.
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Awwww
Just try too get to know him - find out what his interests are, hobbies that sort of thing. You never know - you may get talking more and find you have loads in common! Be confident and just as long as you are not too forward he should respect you and you will get to know where you stand!
I hope this helps!
Good Luck!
Biker_chic
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