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im shy and he is shy..what do i do?
hey im a 15/f
I have yet to have a boyfriend or a kiss or anythign like that. Okay so my problem is that I am very shy in school. Outside of school i am so outgoing and bubbly when Im with my friends and stuff you know? I have liked this kid that sits in front of me in one of my classes for about a year now. My friends keep on telling me to talk to him but its sooo hard for me because of my shyness. And what makes it even worse is that he is shy as well! I want to get the guts to talk to him though but im scared that he wont want to talk to me or that he will think that i am ugly. I dont think i am the uglyest thinkg out there but i dont think im pretty. (lets just say i have no self confindence what so ever! ) my friends always tell me that they think im pretty and that they are not just saying it because they are my friends. Im not sure if they are just saying i am pretty jsut because they feel bad. I guess i have no self confidence because i never had a bf before and i have yet to have my first kiss. I talk to some guys in my classes but for soem reason its so hard to talk to my crush. So my question is what can i do to get over my extreme shyness and talk to the guy who is also very shy and not say something stupid?
Thanks in advance =)
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ok, you are exactly like me!!!people are FOREVER telling me i'm like really pretty and even some guys (but like you, i dont think im like the "prettist" in my year) anyway, i've liked this guy, jake since like forever but now he's in like nearly most of my classes so we talk abit more and we've gotten more friendly just because i've actually got the courage to say at least something to him. so my advice to you is what ever you need/want to ask him e.g help with a question you should try and get the courage to ask him. another way of talking to him is just to joke around with him, be friendly with, but try VERY very hard to have self confindence, and most importantly be yourself.
hope i helped
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