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About him...
13 going on 14/f
kay, im pretty sure that some of ya`ll had read my enteries about him lately .. my bestfriend i fell for him .. he likes my bestfriend and my bestfriend likes him back also.. so i had let her have him, yeah okay .. so on w/ the story. i like this guy a whole lot.. and my bestfriend my "twinnie" cause we have so much in common & we're so much alike that's why we call ourselves twinnies.. so then yeahh my twinnie knows that i like him too .. but then each day when i talk to her, it seems like she cares less and less everyday.. she says that shes taking risks to be w/ him .. including losing her friends except for me.. but she doesn't know how much this is hurting me.. js thinking about it makes me wanna cry about it. i've waited for him for so long .. and i keep saying to myself that their my bestfriends & that i should be happy for them and maybe in the future i can have a chance but yet mine & his friendship is too good, cause he basically tells me EVERY SINGLE THING. and i dont wanna lose that either.. its kinda hard to explain.. but i hope yall know what i meann, because he doesn't know that i like him .. and i don't really want to tell him that i do either, because yannoe .. its kinda gonna be awkward.. for us .. because i know that he likes my twinnie and he talks about her to me on the phone EVERY NIGHT .. yess that's how close we are. I can't really take it anymore .. i wanna let go of him .. but then i cant because i promised him that ill always hold on to his hand no matter what. Help me & please give me some advice.. i've been through this for too long, i can't take it anymore. i want to move on but i cant, because i don't want to leave him... he wants me by his side =T i even pray & wish at 11:11 >.<" he told me things that i didn't want to hear.. like how he likes another girl besides my twinnie.. which will hurt my twinnie too.. PLEASE GIVE ME SOME ADVICE ON ALL OF THIS.. IM GOING THROUGH ALL OF THIS. =(
<3 always,
Mary C
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hey, okay well first of all he likes someone else besides your "twinnie". you shouldnt want a chance to date him because he likes someone else besides his girlfriend and thats just bad news. if he goes out wiht you chances are he will like someone besides you as well. he may be so "cute and irresistable" but hes bad news. talk to him first about breaking up with your "twinnie" if he likes antoher girl. if he wont listen then tell your "twinnie" immediately.
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mary c,
i know what its like to like your best friend i was actually in a similar situation. actually like the same thing except my best friend went out with my bestfriend and then they broke up and i started to like him and he liked me back. so it wasnt that bad cause i knew he liked me and i know you dont want to tell him but if you talk to your girl friend and tell her how much you like him you will feel better and you can talk about wat you want to do. also it sounds like this guy likes you but if you want to you can get him jealous but getting with another guy but i dont know about that one. if you dont want to tell him then you have to try to put your time into someone else but being on the phone with him every night dosent help the fact that you want to get over himm....
hope i helped =)
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Communication is the key here.
Your "twinnie" is actually willing to sacrifice some of her friends for one guy? That's not too bright. A wise person once told me, Chicks before dicks. You need to talk with her. Friends are forever, she won't be with that one guy forever. Expecially since she's 13/14 years old. Tell her EXACTLY how you feel. If she's your best friend and you can truly tell her everything, then she will most likely listen and be willing to do something about it. In order to save your friendship with her, BOTH of you need to stop going for this 1 guy. There are a couple hundred million guys in the world, and i'm sure you'll find at least one to suit you. Plus your only 13, wait till you get to highschool. Theres a bigger variety of cute guys to choose from. You also need to tell this guy how your feeling. I know it'll be tough and hard for you to admit it to him, but better out than in. And when your on the phone with him and he starts to tell you about which girls he likes, then just simply tell him that you feel uncomftorable talking to him about that stuff.If you need anything else, just pop one in the inbox. Good Luck!
hope i helped
xo
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