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swimming
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i take advanced swimming lessons and my teacher keep asking me to join the team but all i do is say i'll think about it.i want to join because there's a competition in march that takes place in my ex-boyfriend hometown,so i wanna join so i could see him again(to hopefully not beat the crap outta him if i do)but i don't because i would have to practice like 6 or 7 days a week and i live far from where practice is and i wouldn't be able to get a ride.so my question is what should i do?
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If you really like to swim & you'd like to join the team, I don't see why you shouldn't. I understand that the ride thing to practices might suck, BUT find a friend on the swim team who can give you a ride. :]
Also, don't underestimate how much work this will be. Being on a team of some kind is no walk in the park. You're going to have to be dedicated, work your ass off, and keep your grades up. But if you decide to join, have fun & don't beat up your ex, haha.
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Yes, I think that would be a great idea. But this will be a lot of hard work, it's anything but easy. So only join if you're ready and prepared to work your butt off. And if you are, then I think it's a great idea. However, if you're only considering to join the swim team for your ex, that's a very bad idea. Because if you don't have the passion for it, and chose to be on the team for what it is, then it's going to equal no fun and not wanting to do it.
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IT seems to me that you're only joining to see your EX boyfriend. He's your ex...get over him right now. You guys are EXs for a reason.
If you're joining because you love the sport and you want to meet new people, you should talk with the people on the team that live somewhere close to you if they pick you up and drop you off
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Swim team is fun, great for the social life and keeps you healthy.
If the only reason you want to join is to beat your ex, then no - don't join.
But if you are interested in meeting new people and looking toned/healthy - then go for it. As for a ride, perhaps another swim team member can help out.
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