Mi friends crazi bout 2 bois.n now she wont go wit no one ku
Question Posted Wednesday January 10 2007, 11:37 pm
Ok so thisz aint about me as yu can see..mi friend lets call her *Nicole* shesz 16. well she had a first love letsz call him *Fred* but he left her aftr a year got hooked up with her ex best friend nd got her prego...wellp she tried othr guysz but culdnt do it kuz she onli thought about her frst love *Fred* thn about 1 year nd a half later or so her Best guy friend hooked her up wit hisz kuzin letsz call him *Henry* she fell fer him tha second she saw him.. they started goin out nd it was like a fairy tail....he sed she was soo special nd tht she was hisz babi grl...she saw in hisz txt messagesz tht he wasz still tlkin to hisz ex...she mentioned it nd he sed she wont stop tlkin to him so she believed him...thn around christmas time he stopped tlkin to her....so she asked *Henry* if he wanted to b with her nd *Henry* sed of course wellp tht was tha last time *Nicole* tlked to *Henry* until Christmas wen he broke up wit her..now tht they are broken up *Henry* goes back out with hisz ex...nd *Nicole*'s ex started tlkin to her all of sudden...*Fred* alwaysz seemsz to do thisz..he alwaysz comesz back wen sumthin seemsz to go bad in *Nicole*'s life..now she isz feelin him agen nd still feelin *Henry*...i hate to see her like thisz she isz mi best friend nd i dnt want her to go thru kno more pain she talksz about thm both nd crysz evrytime..shesz a mess...wat do i do to help her.....nd to tell yu *Henry* told everybody tht he never liked *Nicole* in the first place so now shes depressed b.c it was all lies but *Henry*'s kuzin *Nicole*'s best guy friend sed tht hes lien he realli does like her itsz the fact tht she changed nd i dnt see where she changed all she did was luv him...can sumone tell me wat to say or do in this matter...Answer as soon as possible
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? LonelyGirl answered Thursday July 28 2011, 8:33 am: aw thats so sad :/ i would hate to be in either your or her position. Personally I think "Fred" and "Henry" are idiots for doing that to her. They are obviously really hurting her if shes crying about it. Tell her that no boy is worth her tears and that she can do so much better than them. Tell her to delete their mobile numbers etc so she can keep distance from them both and it will help her get through it and get over them eventually. This isn't "Nicole's" fault at all but she does need to realize that she can't hold onto this forever, she needs to let go otherwise she will keep crying from thinking about it. It is the past and she needs to think about herself. Think of it has something to learn from, not every guy will treat you the way you want to. And she needs to stick by her guy best friend, he tried helping her find someone after a heart break. He seems to really care about her. Maybe he can help her through it. Maybe she will develop feelings for him. [ LonelyGirl's advice column | Ask LonelyGirl A Question ]
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