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i am 18 years old,my girlfriend is 16... we have been together for 9 months now... on july 27th we decided to start having unprotected sex..since then we have had sex on Aug 4th,22nd,26th and now sept 5th and 6th ... she found out she was pergnant last month.. and she is in denials of keeping the baby ratherless telling her mom.. i love her soo much but i really won't like her to kill the baby.. even if its now forming... what should we do... (link)
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aw no :( talk to her about it and tell her how you feel about her and what you want with her. if she doesnt want the baby and has an abortion then it will help you in a way. if you have the baby then it will make life very hard for you and it will be hard working on your career while raising a child. also it might be a hard life for the baby having young parents. also a baby can ruin relationships and you dont want to lose her do you? it might be really hard as abortions are practically killing babies and im totally against them but if its her choice and she still wants to do it after talking about it to you then its for the best i guess. you can also see it though as a miracle from god and maybe you can convince her to keep the baby. if she still is in denial about keeping the baby then just remember that if you do love her like you say you do then let her choose as it is her body and she is the pregnant one. there is still the future and im sure you guys wil still be together when you are older. get your life on track with her first then have a baby.
hope i helped and didnt offend :)
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Hey. So I’m a seventeen year old girl, dating a seventeen year old guy, and were both seniors. In all aspects, he’s a pretty much perfect boyfriend. We’ve been dating for three months and the only complaint I have is about one of his friends.
For about three years, he’s been really close to this girl. She’s sixteen, a junior. I knew when we first started talking that they were very good friends, and I could tell in just the way he talked about her that she meant a lot to him. But he assured me it was strictly a brother-sister type relationship. And while I trust him, it’s still been hard to always see it like that. She’s absolutely gorgeous, and a really sweet girl. I know I’m not ugly but she just has this way about her… she’s very very small. And he is very very very protective of her. And I don’t know, he doesn’t get that kind of protective of me (shes one of those, damsel in distress type that all guys love to "rescue" all the time). He is always taking care of her… And while yeah, I don’t need taking care of exactly, it still feels weird. Basically before we started dating they would talk on the phone or text every single day, hang out every weekend, he took her to prom… they were inseprapable. And he has reeeeeally cut back on how much he’s been seeing her. And I haven’t had to ask him to do that, and I know he doesn’t like it, but he does it. And while he doesn’t’ complain about it, or even acknowledge it, I know he misses her. But honestly, I don’t know what to do. I’m scared he’s gonna fall in love with her or something. I want him to be happy but I don’t want to get involved in his friendships or do anything that might break us up. And I feel selfish and guilty because I know she needs him and I know he really cares about her… but what am I supposed to do!?
On a side not, this girl and me do no get a long AT ALL. It’s a long story but she basically hates me because of something that happened between me and her friend…, which… well it’s complicated. But I don’t necessarily like her either? Yeah… so me hanging around her is kind of out of the question.
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hmm this is really interesting. i wouldnt worry about it if i were you. just love the time you spend with your boyfriend and cherish it. if she causes any problems between you and your boyfriend which results with you 2 fighting then thats the time to worry. i think you should just leave them and maybe ask him about her? if you have already done that then just see how things go and im sure eventually you will maybe realise that she is just like a little sister to him. i doubt anything is going on between them because he seems to be really into you if he stops spending time with her to be with you. i think your just a bit paranoid but dont worry because if he did like her or something then he wouldnt be with you.
hope i helped :)
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Ok so thisz aint about me as yu can see..mi friend lets call her *Nicole* shesz 16. well she had a first love letsz call him *Fred* but he left her aftr a year got hooked up with her ex best friend nd got her prego...wellp she tried othr guysz but culdnt do it kuz she onli thought about her frst love *Fred* thn about 1 year nd a half later or so her Best guy friend hooked her up wit hisz kuzin letsz call him *Henry* she fell fer him tha second she saw him.. they started goin out nd it was like a fairy tail....he sed she was soo special nd tht she was hisz babi grl...she saw in hisz txt messagesz tht he wasz still tlkin to hisz ex...she mentioned it nd he sed she wont stop tlkin to him so she believed him...thn around christmas time he stopped tlkin to her....so she asked *Henry* if he wanted to b with her nd *Henry* sed of course wellp tht was tha last time *Nicole* tlked to *Henry* until Christmas wen he broke up wit her..now tht they are broken up *Henry* goes back out with hisz ex...nd *Nicole*'s ex started tlkin to her all of sudden...*Fred* alwaysz seemsz to do thisz..he alwaysz comesz back wen sumthin seemsz to go bad in *Nicole*'s life..now she isz feelin him agen nd still feelin *Henry*...i hate to see her like thisz she isz mi best friend nd i dnt want her to go thru kno more pain she talksz about thm both nd crysz evrytime..shesz a mess...wat do i do to help her.....nd to tell yu *Henry* told everybody tht he never liked *Nicole* in the first place so now shes depressed b.c it was all lies but *Henry*'s kuzin *Nicole*'s best guy friend sed tht hes lien he realli does like her itsz the fact tht she changed nd i dnt see where she changed all she did was luv him...can sumone tell me wat to say or do in this matter...Answer as soon as possible (link)
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aw thats so sad :/ i would hate to be in either your or her position. Personally I think "Fred" and "Henry" are idiots for doing that to her. They are obviously really hurting her if shes crying about it. Tell her that no boy is worth her tears and that she can do so much better than them. Tell her to delete their mobile numbers etc so she can keep distance from them both and it will help her get through it and get over them eventually. This isn't "Nicole's" fault at all but she does need to realize that she can't hold onto this forever, she needs to let go otherwise she will keep crying from thinking about it. It is the past and she needs to think about herself. Think of it has something to learn from, not every guy will treat you the way you want to. And she needs to stick by her guy best friend, he tried helping her find someone after a heart break. He seems to really care about her. Maybe he can help her through it. Maybe she will develop feelings for him.
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ok so yeah today i had gym but this kid i like keeps looking at me.He even knows i like him.But i think he likes me because he checks me out...My friends say yeah he kept checking you out.lol.does this mean he likes me?? (link)
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hm.. he might like you. If he has been checking you out maybe it might mean he just wants to get with you? (if he is like that sort of guy). Talk to him and see where it goes, good luck!
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