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i dont know what to do
I know my boyfriend is sick right now. but im really upset. i havnt talked to him in a while. i mean, if i was sick i'd still come online and talk to him. but he doesnt. its like he doesnt care. he tells me all the time he does. but then hes always out with his friends. also one day he came to my house, but said he had to go eat dinner at 6 and he'd be on the computer, but he went to his friends after, and wasnt home until 9. another thing like this happend also. he said he wasnt allowed over because his parents wanted him home. but he was allowed at his friends house all day. and not to mention i live 10 minutes away. i got all these mixed feelings. it hurts. i love him alot though..
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Everyone is different and it really depends how sick he is because if hes throwing up every hour. I doubt hes going to come online, whereas if he just has a fever he might, but I know a lot of people who dont go online when they're sick because the screen makes them dizzy.
As far as the firneds thing goes. He may actually not be lying. I know you think he is, but it is possible that he isn't. I mean I know a lot of parents who would let their children go to friends houses, but not their girl/boy friends house, however it is possible that this is a lie, adn that he is just trying to avoid you and it seems like that is the way you feel. You need to confront him and tell him how you feel. The more you stay with someone or hide your feelings about something they do the more it hurts. He doesnt deserve you if hes going to be making up lies to get away from you. TALK TO HIM. Three words that could make a world of difference.
Hope I helped =)
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