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Is it normal to be "turned on"???


Posted Tuesday March 6 2007, 9:19 pm

15/f.

This only started this year...is it normal to get a sudden attraction to EVERY guy that passes by? (He has to be Okay looking though :P lol)......and getting a sudden urge to talk to that person or communicate to him? :O

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"the move"


Posted Tuesday March 6 2007, 9:15 pm

if my boyfriend tries to put his arm around me at the movies, how do i react? do i put my arm around his shoulder or do i just sit there or do i look at him? ahhh, im so scared.

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movies


Posted Tuesday March 6 2007, 9:13 pm


i'm going to the movies with my
boyfriend and my friend on sunday.
i'm soo scared because this is my
first date. i don't want to be too
shy or too outgoing and this is the
first time seeing him in person !
what should i talk about to him to
avoid random silences?

and also, i really want to kiss him
and he said hes going to kiss me and
this will be my second time kissing and
im sooo scared. i forgot how to, and how
do i know if he wants to just kiss or makeout?

oh yeah, and do you think i should
wear my hair down and straight, down
and scrunched, or scrunched and in
a side or regular ponytail ?

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whoever said that???


Posted Tuesday March 6 2007, 7:59 pm

who ever said that ex bf/gf's can't be JUST friends??...well theyre right..almost. ugh, i swear my ex says he was cool being friends at first but i kinda wasnt only because i was SO hurt. now later on we became "friends" but lately he's being such a jerk. like all he does is be mean..not like punch you or kick you mean like verbaly mean. it drives me crazy because one day were like nice to eachother the next he gets me really mad because he gets mean. i don't know whats going through his head...what do i do? what is he feeling? what does it mean?

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I don't understand...


Posted Tuesday March 6 2007, 7:47 pm

I don't understand why girls don't like the "sweet" or "nice" guys anymore..All my friends that are girls, like the "Bad boys" or the "Jocks". I like one of my friends, but she likes one of the "bad boy" guys...How can I get her to realize that I could probably be a better boyfriend than him...(14/M)

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dillema.


Posted Tuesday March 6 2007, 7:40 pm

okay so, i recently told the kid i liked that i liked him. i know he liked me like 2 months ago and weve been friends for about a year now. we talk almost everyday online too. he's always the firt to IM me. soo when i told him he laughed and asked me why. and i was like i dont know i just do. and he made a small joke about me wanting to marry him or something. he said that he was jk and he just thought it was funny because he was high. then he started asking me random questions like what i did that day and stuff like that. i dont get it at all. i told him yesterday and we havent talked since. im afraid to IM him now cause i dont want him to think im like madley in love with him but its weird cause we were pretty good friends. not the best o...

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i blew it the first chance now i want a second chance


Posted Tuesday March 6 2007, 7:25 pm

i have known this kid for 9 years we get along great he is major cute and he liked me when we were younger but i blew it with him and now i like him...but unfortunatly he has a gf i knwo i should wait till they break up but if we go out and then break up will that jeaprodize our friendship?

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talkin trash b/f.


Posted Tuesday March 6 2007, 7:22 pm

Today i found out that my b/f was talking about me in english. My friend told me that her b/f(who is mi b/f's best friend), told her and to even ask one of my BEST FRIENDs about it, so i did. She aggreed with it. She said he really only talks about me when we are in a fight, but theyre mightve been some other times too. She sed she mightve over heard him telling his friend that I'm a bitch but shes not 100% sure.

He usually isnt the type to lie about something like that, but idk. Like recently other guys have been hitting on me nd he just laughs. And i noticed that he ALWAYS interrupts me when im talking to him. He doesnt pay as much attention as he used to do cuz he cant remember half the things i tell him...

...

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boyfriend:-/


Posted Tuesday March 6 2007, 7:02 pm

ok lets so where to start well I have a boyfiend and we haev been going out for almost six months and for the like past 2 months when I am around him I instantly get depressed or more like sad how can I fix this without breaking up with him??? help plz!!!3

Victoria

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my "controling" boyfriend


Posted Tuesday March 6 2007, 6:32 pm

ok so me and my boyfriend have been together for a lil over a year. me and him have always had silly lil fights but lately they have been ALL the time and they arent silly or little anymore. i mean its gotten out of control. every fight we have is because i say something wrong (i dont exactly think before i talk.... never have). well see, im also a VERY dominant person and its starting to get to the point that i can tell he has control over me and thats why my attitude is so horrible and thats when we fight. i dont want him to be kissing my ass, i just wanna know i have just as much control as he does. i've talked to him about it and all he says is that the way he acts to make me feel that way is all just joking. i know he jokes around alot...

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So theres this boy...


Posted Tuesday March 6 2007, 6:28 pm

I have a crush on this boy, lets call him 'TOM'.
Hes cute, nice, popular, jock; the usual. I'm pretty popular but not the most popular, im pretty but not the prettiest ( there r for sure prettyier ppl then me). I am a nice girl, everyone knows but, a couple years ago i did something bad (but by accadent). This 'bad thing'ruined my rep. I really like this boy, and i feel as if he could like me in return but, he is pretty popular and i dont no if hed wannt to go out with a girl who did such a gross thing. I am not really friends with all his friends, but i am pretty close with some of them, and i feel as if he wouldn't want them to know that hes going out with me.
Help?!


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my friend


Posted Tuesday March 6 2007, 5:47 pm

my friends a guy, and i donno if he likes me. he says " i love you" a lot, but i donno if he's just joking. im thinking that maybe hes trying to get me to say it cause he might like me...on the other hand he might think i like him so he wants to see if its true. i really dont know what to think. out of me and all my friends, he calls me the most, but it doesnt seem like he would like me, but im confuzed cause my friend says that he says " i love you" to her too, but i think she might just be jealous... help!

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help i don't know what to do


Posted Tuesday March 6 2007, 4:57 pm

my girl freand and i have a Weird relationship she and her freands constanly make me feel like i shouldn't be around them becuse of they way they treat each other and how she just pulls me back in to the relationship even though she once before broke up with me and now she is back with me. the reason for this is because i wanted her to and i thought she loved me now her freand tommy a muscle bound jerk picks up the phone while i am talking to my gf and says don't you call again after that my frist instinct was to delete her number. two days later she dosen't even remember it and i am sick and tired of this and i want to break up with her but i feel that i can't what should i do?

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i don't get it.


Posted Tuesday March 6 2007, 4:55 pm

b0ys always say i'm h0tt 0r cute 0r whatev. but i want a b0yfriend, and i can't seem t0 get 0ne. i really d0n't get it! like i think ab0ut it all the time, i'm n0t ugly i kn0w that, b0ys think i'm cute and everything but why can't i just get 0ne, especially that i really like. the 0ne i d0 doesn't like me. but i need him t0 get t0 notice me 0r soemthing. help! thanks! :D && b0ys advice w0uld be great from y0u guys t00!

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dumped for weed?


Posted Tuesday March 6 2007, 4:54 pm

i was seeing someone over the summer- but his worst enemy fancied me.
his "worst enemy" was/is a stoner, and a lot of people inclding my best mate told me that the guy i was seeing was one aswell. when i asked him about it he promised me he wasnt and i believed him, but i now know this is because he was under the impression that i would ditch him if i knew he was (i suspect).
in september, he dumped me and he was suddenly best mates with the guy who was once his "worst enemy" . he has since let me know hes a stoner in more ways than one and i really dont understand whether hes trying to prove a point or something but its really p*ssing me off
i wouldnt even be bothered if he told me he was a stoner i...

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wow, boys.


Posted Tuesday March 6 2007, 4:29 pm

okay, so lets start with calling him "bob" alright well you see me and bob we go to different schools, but we use to like each other. and i really really like him, like i'd do anything for him. i see him occasionally since we live in the same town. i know he sees me and he gives me a look. it is one of those looks that i cant forget, but i think he can. its so hard to explain, i wish he liked me i wish we went out, but i need to work on him noticing me at least, and having him text me like he use to. what should i do? i need help!

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too far, too quick?


Posted Tuesday March 6 2007, 4:05 pm

okay so in december me and this kid went out for a very short period of time..(i was rebound) and his last gf just broke up with him saturday and asked me out last night but i said no we can just talk for a little while and well today he came over and we fooled around went to like 2 or 3 base-ish and now i feel terrible (right after i was told my bff got outta jail but one of his best friends died so now hes gotta go to a funeral which also upset me) i guess my question is

1 why do i feel bad
2 how do i trust this kid that i fooled around with

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not returning calls or going online


Posted Tuesday March 6 2007, 3:18 pm


i'm the type of girl who's very
clingy and wants to know where
my boyfriend is and who he's with.
it's not because i don't trust him,
it's just because i always want to hear
his voice. my boyfriend used to be like
that but now after we've been going out
for a while, he doesn't call me as much
and he barely goes online and he doesn't
go to my school. i always call him and he
never calls me and i seem desperate calling
him every hour. =( but i can't help it.

how can i stop seeming desperate and stop the need to call my boyfriend every hour?
because he thinks it's getting annoying....

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uhm, wierd question..


Posted Tuesday March 6 2007, 9:48 am

Okay, I know this is one of the wierdest questions that anyone will ask, but I need an answer...

... Okay, so, when you are making out with someone, do you keep your tounge in their mouth or do you sometimes put it back in yours??

I know, that's a wicked stupid question but I'm really confused and I'm to shy to ask someone like my friends or something.

So, someone please help? :]

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Totally Confused


Posted Tuesday March 6 2007, 8:50 am

okay so i like this guy that is alot older then me,but he has a job,and a car,and lives with my brother in law cuz its his cousin.I know im not aloud to date this guy,but i really lioke him and would be willing to keep it a secret.2 days ago when he dropped me off at my house,i said "you shouldnt punish me just becuse i was born later then you",and he leaned over and kissed me.Then yesterday i was whispering to him across he room"so what ae we doing"and he just shrugged his shoulders at me.im not sure if he knew what was taking about or not.how is a good way to ask him?

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