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i'm going to the movies with my
boyfriend and my friend on sunday.
i'm soo scared because this is my
first date. i don't want to be too
shy or too outgoing and this is the
first time seeing him in person !
what should i talk about to him to
avoid random silences?
and also, i really want to kiss him
and he said hes going to kiss me and
this will be my second time kissing and
im sooo scared. i forgot how to, and how
do i know if he wants to just kiss or makeout?
oh yeah, and do you think i should
wear my hair down and straight, down
and scrunched, or scrunched and in
a side or regular ponytail ?
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You need to calm down first of all. Everything is going to fine. I can guarentee you that he feels as scared as you do about this date maybe even more so. All you have to do is be who you really are, relax and go with the flow.
What should you talk to him about to avoid silence? You're going to the movies with him so I would start by asking him about his favorite movies, actors, actresses, directors etc. Then ask him about his interests and hobbies, siblings etc. Talk to him about books and CDs and bands he is into.
That should take care of things there. Ask him about his goals too and what he plans for after high school. That shows deep interest. People LOVE to talk about themselves and that will lead you into all kinds of areas to discuss. Trust me on that!
The most important tip of all is do not under any circumstances talk about yourself and or your accomplishments and what you do, goals etc. unless he asks you a direct question. This shows you are more interested in him than your own self.
As far as hair goes I would say to pick what you usually do with your hair as that's what he is used to seeing in pictures you probably sent him while online. It also helps him instantly recognize you and have that automatic connection.
Then again, if you choose not to go that route he'll love the styles you mentioned except for two. I would avoid anthing off to the side or in a ponytail. If it were me (being a guy) on said date I'd want you to stick to straight hair going down as anything else could be distracting as he's probably going to starring at your hairdo and not always at your face.
Best word of advice: do your hair the way you like people to see it the most. As for kissing what you need to do is start with a little peck. That teases the other person and if you want open mouth remember to copy the other person's movements and gently flick inside the mouth, the cheeks etc and do not stick your tongue to far in.
Flick his lips wtith you tongue first and follow his lead. Trust me, you'll remember it from last time as it all comes back. If you're really nervous just tell him you have only ever been kissed once and to guide you. Most guys enjoy teaching girls this kind of thing and the practice.
You have nothing to worry about as the kiss is in the bag and you know he's really into you. Just be the girl he knows from online or however he knows you and don't be fake or phony or anything you aren't.
Your biggest problem is choosing a movie now that you both will enjoy. I recommend Zodiac by the way or Breach. You may also enjoy Astronaut Farmer if they won't let you in to see the others.
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on the hair thing i think you should do what you feel comfortable in.
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