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dillema.
okay so, i recently told the kid i liked that i liked him. i know he liked me like 2 months ago and weve been friends for about a year now. we talk almost everyday online too. he's always the firt to IM me. soo when i told him he laughed and asked me why. and i was like i dont know i just do. and he made a small joke about me wanting to marry him or something. he said that he was jk and he just thought it was funny because he was high. then he started asking me random questions like what i did that day and stuff like that. i dont get it at all. i told him yesterday and we havent talked since. im afraid to IM him now cause i dont want him to think im like madley in love with him but its weird cause we were pretty good friends. not the best of friends but pretty good ones. he hasnt talked to me yet either. the last time we hung out was on friday but he didnt show any signs of liking me. like when we usually hang out, before he got his car taken away, he would always like say smart ass things and pick on me and take my shoes and stuff like that. we only hung out for like an hour and a half friday but idk. he didnt act like he did before. should i act like nothing happened and talk to him like usual? im not the kind of person that is like hey we need to talk about this. before when he liked me, i didnt like him like that. i liked his friend, but no one knew. except for my best friend. and she wouldnt have told anyone. i dont know what to do. i like him alot.
do you think i should casually just ask him to come to a party with me and my friends this weekend and see what happens from there?
do you think i should IM him and act like nothings up er what?
thanks in advance ;)
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Ok, well, fist off, he probably got a little paranoid- boys are like that. Just talk to him casually and act like nothing happened. I hate 2 break it 2 u, but he might not like you OR he doesn`t KNOW if he likes you or not. And like yeah fer shur party with him, flirt, do whatevs...have fun! IM him and just be all "hey wsp? Y are you bein all emo on me haha" you know...jokingly. I hope all works out w// u....tell me what happens!
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I think that you should talk to him about it and if he knew what he was saying because you said he said he was high when you told him. I think that you should invite him to the party, but as a warning, he may act different when he is with you around other people. I think that if he is then you need to talk to him. You should tell him that you want to figure out if things between you and him could go further then it is now. If he acts gay about it and ignores you then its mainly because he needs time to figure things out as well, and he wasnt expecting it. Hope it helps.
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