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whoever said that???
who ever said that ex bf/gf's can't be JUST friends??...well theyre right..almost. ugh, i swear my ex says he was cool being friends at first but i kinda wasnt only because i was SO hurt. now later on we became "friends" but lately he's being such a jerk. like all he does is be mean..not like punch you or kick you mean like verbaly mean. it drives me crazy because one day were like nice to eachother the next he gets me really mad because he gets mean. i don't know whats going through his head...what do i do? what is he feeling? what does it mean?
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well, i got dumped, the relationship ended on great terms. we were friends for a few weeks, then things have been going horrible since then. exes CAN be friends, but there are a lot of obsticles in the way. unfortunately, its very rare.
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that means hes talking 2u 2 help his ego please stop talking 2 this boy!!!
hes a jerk
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i know for a fact that gf/bf can be friends too but not if hes going to be mean like that. He might be moody but unforuntely he could be mad about something that hes been hiding from you that you havent noticed. Or maybe he just wants to get back together with you. You can be open to him and maybe ask people that he knows, what is wrong with him these days. He probably is feeling angry and stressed about something between you too that you havent quite noticed or not. It means you need to stop him from doing that to you because you dont deserve any of that, no one does. So when he drives you crazy stop him, look him in the eye, and say this has to stop!
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I know a few broken-up couples that are still friends. The relationships didn't end on bad terms, though, so that's probably why they're still friends. I know that this doesn't really apply to your question, but I just wanted you to know that it's possible, but rare, that couples can remain friends after a break-up.
Anyway, why is your ex being mean? I honestly don't know the exact reason, since I don't know anything about your relationship and how it ended. I can give you a possibility or two, though.
He could still be bitter about the break-up. He may have been nice at first, and he could have been hiding his feelings. But, as we all know, hiding your feelings only makes them come back strongly later on, and that's what may have happened with him. He could be expressing all of the pent-up anger now.
He could also be mean because he doesn't know how to act around you anymore. He might be expressing his frustration by being mean. I know that sounds weird, but anything's possible.
What do you do? Well, I don't care if he's your ex or some random person off the street; Anyone who treats you badly in such a way isn't worth your time.
However, if he isn't mean very often, you can explain to him that the things he says hurt your feelings. That should open his eyes a little bit, if he doesn't realize that he's being mean. But if he doesn't change, you need to stop wasting your time on him. A mean person is a mean person, ex-boyfriend or not.
I hope I helped, and if you have any more questions, feel free to leave one in my inbox!
-Manders
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