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i blew it the first chance now i want a second chance
i have known this kid for 9 years we get along great he is major cute and he liked me when we were younger but i blew it with him and now i like him...but unfortunatly he has a gf i knwo i should wait till they break up but if we go out and then break up will that jeaprodize our friendship?
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ask him straight up when he breaks up with his current gf. tell him that you cherish your friendship and while you are falling for him, your friendship is super important to you. think about it first. are you willing to put your friendship on the line for a relationship? in my opinion, an amazing friendship is so much better than a relationship.
my best friend, jessica, just went out with our best friend, steven. they broke up on bad terms and now they dont talk anymore. (she cheated on him). but from the beginning he told her that it depended on what they broke up over, wheter or not they would still be friends.
but not all end like that. some work out to where they are still as good of friends.
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If there was a fallen tree trunk barring the way to a pot of gold, would you step over it?
Another girlfriend is a fallen tree trunk.
(Unless she's your friend, in which case she is a high brick wall.)
Another girlfriend is a fallen tree trunk, but not everybody is able to go over it. Sometimes it's dirty, sometimes you fall off, sometimes you hurt yourself. Sometimes you just have to step over it.
If you do get to the other side, though, you might realize that you may have to give up friendship. Friendships after a break up are hard; you hurt him, he hurt you, you don't like him, he likes you, or vice-versa, you try to stay friend but somehow someone always ends up confused or hurt, and it's a whole big mess, and you wonder why you bothered climbing over the trunk in the first place.
Now, what you have to decide is what is the most precious to you: do you feel that your life wouldn't be complete without a kiss from the prince charming, or would you rather hang out with the jester?
Oh yeah, and if you decide to cut through the tree trunk... just remind yourself that not all guys like a lumberjill...
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If he really likes this hirl it's not fair to get between them so you should probably wait until he's single again. You have to decide what you value more, your friendship with him or a relationship with him. If you do decide to go out with him and eventually break up it may jeopradize your friendship. It depends on how the two of you feel after you've broken up, some ex's can stay friends others can't.
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