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my "controling" boyfriend
ok so me and my boyfriend have been together for a lil over a year. me and him have always had silly lil fights but lately they have been ALL the time and they arent silly or little anymore. i mean its gotten out of control. every fight we have is because i say something wrong (i dont exactly think before i talk.... never have). well see, im also a VERY dominant person and its starting to get to the point that i can tell he has control over me and thats why my attitude is so horrible and thats when we fight. i dont want him to be kissing my ass, i just wanna know i have just as much control as he does. i've talked to him about it and all he says is that the way he acts to make me feel that way is all just joking. i know he jokes around alot but i HAVE to be the dominant one and im losing control...... how do i make this situation better so both of us are happy?
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trust me, things don't get any better. If he's controlling you now just imagaine what if it would be like to be married to him and have his baby. if he's controlling and fighting with you now it's only a matter of time before he starts hitting you. Get out while you can and find yourself a relationship where you can be the dominant one. You can both be happy apart. You don't need to waste your time fighting with someone.
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Next time you two get in a fight, try talking to him again and if he plays the sarcasm routine, you know that it's not joking, since it's continuous. Tell him you love him and all, but you feel like he's controlling you and you don't want that, and that you both want control equally. But if he keeps controlling you, you know that he may not be the one, so you might just want to end it. It may hurt, but it's the right thing to do.
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