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Friend w benefits or relationship
Posted Friday May 18 2007, 10:02 am
I have had a best friend w benefit and relationship with a guy for 2 and 1/2 years it was fun until about 6 months ago. When I asked what we were and he said we were in a relationship and it turned into one somewhere along the way but he has been distant and not spending time with me anymore. When I told him this he said he needs time to think - and it had nothing to do with me or us. The problem is he is my neighbor and he is involved with my children from a previous marraige. So I still see him everyday! I still want him and still very attractive to him. He has said he hopes to have more with me in the future but does not want to hurt me or make any promises??? I just dont get it! One time he says it is nothing to do with me and t...
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controlling boyfriend.
Posted Friday May 18 2007, 6:01 am
i have an amazing boyfriend, he does everything you could emagine a wonderful boyfriend doing. we've been together 5 and a half months now. i used to be so happy with everything, but he's 3 years older than me. i'm only 15 and everything is so serious now. he also get VERY jealous, and i'm not allowed to talk to other guy, text any other guys or anything, i barely even get to hang out with my friends. i really love my boyfriend but i keep thinking do i really want to be so serious, i'm only 15 i need freedom.
i need some advice on what to do here?
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date ideas? & a question for guys
Posted Friday May 18 2007, 12:29 am
I need to ask a guy out on a date [1st date ever!] and i need cute [but cheap, please] date ideas. NO movies / dinner / my house [ew]. The first 2 are cliche and the last one will sound sl*tty lol.
Thanks in advance =] i'm 14 years old btw and the guy is 16. so no things like "local coffee house" lol
also, FOR GUYS...what's your dream date? [WHAT, not WHO. and no sexual things please haha] & would you rather call it "hanging out" or a "date"?
haha i'm so wound up about this
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peer pressure
Posted Friday May 18 2007, 12:05 am
I am a 26 year old mom of 2 girls who has been dateing a 33 year old who has never been married and has no kids. He loves to play darts and is 3rd in the region. I want a family again and love him very much we do live together but the only problem is his bar buddy's always call him and want him to go down to the bar to "play" darts but then he comes home drunk.I don't know what to do especially when his friends say "ask your mom if you can come and play" He is so use to being a batchlor I don't think he knows how to handle it. How am I suppose to handle it?
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feeling up
Posted Thursday May 17 2007, 11:11 pm
15/m
i always see these questions about people making out and feeling each other up and such. . . .
my question is how would one go about this without seeming too aggressive or, even worse, looking like a sleazebag?
i'm just asking because i want something to make making out a little bit more interesting, and i've read all these things about "oh, you should feel her up while you make out," but i don't exactly know how to go about doing that . . .
i know it's kind of a weird question but i just don't want to seem like a jerk to my girlfriend. i mean, we love each other a lot and i don't want to jeopardize it. . . .
thanks in advance
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Mixed Feelings
Posted Thursday May 17 2007, 10:44 pm
Ok Im 13/f. I am not sure about something and it is bugging me alot. I have liked a guy for over 6 months and we used to flirt alot and stuff but now he likes my bff and she likes him and they are going to grad together and I have slowly gotten over him completly. Sometimes I think I still like him though. Theres another guy (lets call him Jasen) that I think I like. We didnt really know eachother until this year but he is a really great guy. He is very nice and sweet and he is very trustworthy. I think I am beginning to like him. He stands up for me when people are racists and hes just a phone call away whenever I fight with my parents or are really upset. He is alot of fun and he has helped me in many ways. There is one problem. He is not...
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Boy
Posted Thursday May 17 2007, 10:40 pm
Ok i like eric and we are going out but he might like this other girl so im discusted to be around him and i dont kno why he didnt even tell me i hurd it from a friend.. so i dont kno whether to tell him i know or just go out with him still i dont wanna say anythign because what if its true?? I love him and i dont want this one girl who doesnt like him AT ALL to interfere shes already gooing out with someone so what do i do
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i like this guy and my friend needs to stop talking to him.
Posted Thursday May 17 2007, 10:40 pm
my friend knows i like this guy but she keeps talking to him. she even told me many times that he's all mine. how should i approach her and let her know that i really like him and that i want to her stop sort of like leading him on to her. please help because this has been bothering me for a really long time and i cant get it off of back. thanks!
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ex bf
Posted Thursday May 17 2007, 9:26 pm
14/f
well me and my ex broke up along time ago. we always still loved eachother, we were together for about 5 months.we just kinda floated away, now we are talking again. we wanna date again but im scared we are going to "float" apart again. what should i do? holla bac at da snowbunny "kizzaz"
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Phone Talk
Posted Thursday May 17 2007, 9:24 pm
I'm 13yrs old and I'm a female.Me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost 5 months and he calls usally everyday and do when he calls one day we have nothing to talk about the next so the phone conversations are silent......!We've already talked about the basics like our likes and dislikes,and the future,even random things like CHEESE!So if you have any advice than please help me!
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im all alone!!
Posted Thursday May 17 2007, 8:28 pm
ok, so im the only one out of all me friends that doesnt have a bf. I really wish that i oculd but im tooo scared to ask a guy out, and most of the guys just consider me a friend anyway.. also my mom forbids me to go out with any one yet anyhow... but i just feel...
any advice on how to get me out of my self pitty?? or get a bf??
oh and im 12/f
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Guys sitting next to you
Posted Thursday May 17 2007, 8:23 pm
Whenever I sit by a guy in school I just LOVE it so much. Because I usually sit with a hot guy. But you see Im just wondering why do guys always tend to be equal if they are sitting next to another girl when they are in the middle. And why do sometimes they sit closer to you (sometimes really close it makes me feel embarassed). Which is what I love!! Is it just a guy thing or what? I really admire it a lot. Why do guys do that?? If you are a guy you can defintely answer this question:) I will rate a 5 or nothing if its good. =]
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cute guy
Posted Thursday May 17 2007, 8:15 pm
i sit next to a really cute guy in math, and we never do anything productive in that class. meaning that for the whole class period everyone just talks to each other. i sit next to this cute guy who often starts really short conversations, but they're only short because i can't keep them going. (oh and he's not interested. he is friendly to EVERYONE. it's his personality) how do i think of witty things to say on the spot? usually he turns around and talks to other people because they seem to be able to carry on a conversation.
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friends with benefits
Posted Thursday May 17 2007, 7:19 pm
Last night was my first kiss. I was hanging out with a group of my friends and everybody went home except me and this guy I've liked for a while. We sat in his car listening to music and talking for a while, and when I got out of the car, he commented that he didn't need to be home for 5 more minutes (we were just up the street from his house). I asked if that was an invitation, and he said that depended on whether I was interested or not. After a few more minutes of playful banter and me almost leaving again, he finally shut up and kissed me. This is with 2 minutes left on the clock. There was tongue involved, there was necking, it was very nice, but only two minutes long. When we broke for air I said to him "time's up" an...
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dont know
Posted Thursday May 17 2007, 7:13 pm
hi,i know this is long but i need help please!! im a 16/m and i like this freshman girl...we've been talking for about a week online but i never really see her in person so i dont get to talk to her in person..tonight i asked her if she had any free periods when i did and she said no why so i was like well i figured we could hang out get to know eachother...this is after i previously asked her tuesday if she could hang out this weekend hbut she couldnt...well now at the end of her away message it says uhmm stalker so now i am afraid this might be me so i dont know if theres anything i can do to find out if it is and if i dont find out what should i do? thanks in advance
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I don't even know..
Posted Thursday May 17 2007, 7:11 pm
heres my problem:
My boyfriend got expelled from my school today for a little fighting he didn't touch anyone but was involved and is an inter district transfer so immediately got expelled with no turning back. Well he could appeal it but his parents don't want to. He lives about twenty minutes from me and will be going to school somewhere up in his area. School gets out in 20 days so I don't think it's going to be too much trouble. I still can't imagine school without him because me and him are inseperable at school we are together 24/7 and I love him to death. I cant help but cry a lot because this is not how I imagined my end of my Sophomore year. (hes a junior). Anyway I guess I just need some help as far as ideas on how to keep ...
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I got suspended!!:(
Posted Thursday May 17 2007, 7:05 pm
Okay im 13/f and today i got suspended for kissing my boyfriend and we wernt even on school property and now we can barely talk the only thing we can do is talk and give hug's but can you give me advice on this please befor tomarro even thoug il lbe home
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friends with benefits??
Posted Thursday May 17 2007, 6:17 pm
ok well my best friend asked me out yesterday and i said yes. we're both girls both bi. we're 14 and in 8th grade so our relationship is a secret. tomorrow we're supposed to go to the movies together and all but i was thinking maybe i should tell her i dont want to date her. i mean for me it would be better just to kiss her and see how that feels. ive never kissed a girl before but i really want to and see i can imagine doing things with her but not "liking" her. its very complicated. i just dont see her as someone i can relate to on that kind of level of girlfriend to girlfriend. she and i are cool as friends. but we could also be friends with benefits. how do i explain to her that i dont like her but would still like to make out...
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Ex-
Posted Thursday May 17 2007, 5:51 pm
Well I like this guy named kyle, we dated before but only for 6 days because his friend lied to me and say that he was cheating on me, which he wasnt. We've started talking again& I like him alot, but I think he's changed, he's had a couple girlfriends since me& well none of them have been real good, like to him or anything- I think he's starting to become a "player" and well I want to change that, how can I? He likes me too which helps.
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what does this mean?
Posted Thursday May 17 2007, 5:49 pm
What does it mean if a guy SAYS he likes you and flirts with you and stuff but constantly teases you and basically makes no effort to continue the relationship further?
14/f. =]
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