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i like this guy and my friend needs to stop talking to him.
my friend knows i like this guy but she keeps talking to him. she even told me many times that he's all mine. how should i approach her and let her know that i really like him and that i want to her stop sort of like leading him on to her. please help because this has been bothering me for a really long time and i cant get it off of back. thanks!
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Okay, there are a few things I think you should hear.
1. Your friend can talk to anyone she wants to talk to. She's allowed to have guy friends.
2. If you keep telling your friend she can't talk to one of her friends, she's going to stop talking to you.
3. This guy isn't your 'property' so you cannot stop him from talking to other girls or stop other girls from talking to him.
4. Even if he was your boyfriend, you still cannot stop him from talking to other girls, or he would dump you for being controlling anyway.
5. You can't get mad at your girly friend for talking to a guy you refuse to tell you like to his face.
6. It doesn't matter who he talks to anyway. He likes who he likes.
7. If you refuse to tell him that you like him, you have no right to tell other girls they can't talk to him. HE IS NOT YOUR BOYFRIEND.
8. If you like him, tell him. If he likes you back, it will work out. If he doesn't, then his life is none of your business so stop trying to control someone you don't even know.
Hope you grow a backbone to confess to the guy and quit being a bitch.
OKAY, THEN, IF YOU TOLD HIM YOU LIKE HIM AND HE HASN'T DONE ANYTHING, HE OBVIOUSLY DOESN'T LIKE YOU BACK, SO GET OVER YOUR FUCKING CONTROLLING SELF YOU STUPID FUCKING DILF!
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Okay no offence, but if you like the guy..grow a backbone and do something about it! WHat's the worst that could happen..this way it could either...get him to become yours for good..or you just realise that he isn't yours..
either way..you've got to stop imagining things.
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Yeah. How about YOU stop sounding controlling?
Uhh, yeah, but that's bullshit if you think it's bad that your friend is just TALKING to the guy you like.. Take a chill pill, child x.x
If she says he's all yours, she means it.
You just need to calm down and stop being paranoid about her "getting your guy."
If it bothers you that much, just tell her, it's really not that complicated. Really.
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Do you know first hand that she is leading him on by witnessing their conversations, or are you imagining it because she's a flirt?
Hey, trust in your friend, if she really is yours friend, and don't worry over it.
She said he was all yours and that means she doesn't like him (unless she's a backstabber)....
You can not control her or anyone else and it is very unreasonable to expect her not to talk to him, or anyone else to talk to him just because you like him.
You can not put him in a bubble.
Chill.
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