ok, so im the only one out of all me friends that doesnt have a bf. I really wish that i oculd but im tooo scared to ask a guy out, and most of the guys just consider me a friend anyway.. also my mom forbids me to go out with any one yet anyhow... but i just feel...
any advice on how to get me out of my self pitty?? or get a bf??
oh and im 12/f
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? summerbeautyxoxo answered Thursday May 17 2007, 10:19 pm: ok, well i know excatly how you feel, i was in the same place you were in a couple of years ago.. i relised that 12 is way way to young to date anyone, so i would focus on being the bestest friend possible to the guys. You will enjoy having guys as friends in the long run insted of them as your bfs. As for your friends.. well how many relationships last longer than uh.. 2 months?? not very many.. and its not like your thinking about spending the rest of your life with these guys, so wouldnt you rather have these guys as your freinds in the long run, so when the time comes for you to be able to date, you could have some close guy freinds to choose?? If you were to go out with them now, you might loose them as a friend or as anything forever! i would totally start off the day with a smile knowing that i will have nice and longlasting friendships instead of a relationship with someone that could be gone in an instant. Dont be sad or depressed!! Remember guys arent worth your tears!!!
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