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friends with benefits??
ok well my best friend asked me out yesterday and i said yes. we're both girls both bi. we're 14 and in 8th grade so our relationship is a secret. tomorrow we're supposed to go to the movies together and all but i was thinking maybe i should tell her i dont want to date her. i mean for me it would be better just to kiss her and see how that feels. ive never kissed a girl before but i really want to and see i can imagine doing things with her but not "liking" her. its very complicated. i just dont see her as someone i can relate to on that kind of level of girlfriend to girlfriend. she and i are cool as friends. but we could also be friends with benefits. how do i explain to her that i dont like her but would still like to make out with her. the thought of kissing her turns me on. haha i could even go father than that! hmm help? thanx
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Hey. This tough, I know cause I have a friend that is bi. Anyway, I would just tell your friend how you feel. Since she is bi, she's probably been in the same boat. I dont see anything wrong with kissing her to get a feel for if your compatible. if you are then thats great! if your not, I wouldn't reccomend the whole friends with benefits thing because usually, one person if always thinking it could turn into something more and you don't want to destroy your friendship. If you don't know how she'll react, just kiss her. If she asked you out, she'd probably be way happy anyway. Good luck :D ♥ fabulous
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Just tell her. I'm sure she'll be cool with it since you guys have a great bond already. If she's not, accept it.
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lol, wow crazy. well if you want to be friends with benifits simply tell her, "say im not sure if i want a relationship..but i do want to be friends with benifits...we can still do stuuf" she'll most likely understand. At least your not letting her down. Just tell her the truth and it will make you feel alot better okay.
If she gets angry and wants you to be her girlfriend, just tell her, "its complicated" and tell her that the sight of kissing her turns you on, it will make her feel good. okay
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