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big question for girls!!!


Posted Monday June 4 2007, 4:02 pm

15/m
riiight i need a bit of advice, girls your the only people who can help. i love my gf to bits but she keeps like having loads of mood swing i know the period n all that but its not that:S she keeps having loads of mood swings and everything is ok with her family and all that i dunno what it is. so girls do you get like this at times?? and if so why:S its personal yeh but i could realy do with the help. thanks very uch:)

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And..he took her heart


Posted Monday June 4 2007, 3:30 pm

Ok my best friend (let's call her jenna) went out with (let's call him jimmy) (off and on)for 3 years... they broke up for the 5th and final time (for now) and she's heart broken. This time he for real wants to move on. He blocked her from aim and myspace and won't even talk to her. He was her world for almost 3 years and now he's gone... ok that's her version. The truth is he was a the biggest jerk to her and treated her like crap and she still wants him back and is acting emo about it now.. how can she get over it?

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Ahhh dont know what to do [guys plz answer too] sry its long


Posted Monday June 4 2007, 3:30 pm

okey, i like this guy, lets call him J and lets call me M and we used to be friends and flirt ALOT. but lately we havent talked to each other. I see him alot in the halls and at gym after school, but its just really awekward between us. I think that he knows that i like him bc, somebody who knows, went up to J and said, "I know someone who likes you!!" and then J is like, " Ya, i know its M." So i know that i like him. He told my friend that he thought i was pretty, but idk if he really means it because my friend might have been pressuring him into saying that. he also said that i was a really good friend, but idk. i have his screenname, but he doesnt know that i have one, so i cant just start talking to him, bc then he ...

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im so lost and confused...my life is upside down


Posted Monday June 4 2007, 3:05 pm

okay i have a serious problem, im addicted to guys..i always wanna date more than one guy and i have a perfect boyfriend who loves me bt for some reason im ALWAYS attracted to other guys. and im always so tempted 2 cheat waht do i do to stay faithful and build my self confidence. so many guys ask me out and hit on me but i still feel im not good enough i hate everything in my life! please some one give me good advice PLEAse !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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AHHHHHH


Posted Monday June 4 2007, 12:53 pm

kay i am freaking out because i am about to go kiss the guy that i like and i was wondering if anyone new anything that might help callm me doown. i have tried breathin but its not working very well. My Hands ARE SHAKING!!!1PLEEZE HELP!

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HELP ME I AM SO CONFUSED!!!!!


Posted Monday June 4 2007, 12:42 pm

I love my boyfriend to death and we've been together for a really long time but how do i know if he really loves me? But he never calls me back but tell's everyone how much he loves me?

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Ment to hurt ?


Posted Monday June 4 2007, 10:18 am

Hya i jus want to no..is it ment to hurt when you get fingered ? Thanks =)

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sh0uld he be mad


Posted Monday June 4 2007, 9:46 am

now wat if dis dude asked you out rite? and so, you said yea, and den you told one of ya friends, and she told lyk 5 otha dudes who'll proly tell sum more ppl, and now you THINK dat if he f0und out dat sum people kn0 den h3'll get mad. wat would you d0?

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does he like me?????


Posted Monday June 4 2007, 9:38 am

i have this best friend, who is a guy and i really like him. but i keep trying to forget him because he doesnt like me in that kind of way. the problem is that he makes it seem like he does so much and my friend kate tells me she thinks he does based on how he acts. i wish he wouldnt confuse me so much because he led me on in this way twice already and he never really liked me.

the other day i saw him and he said he had made me a bracelet out of staples because he got bored. then i left early that day so he and kate were talking and he said out of nowhere..."does sam like me?" and then kate said "why do you ask? do you like her?" and he said "no." so then kate said "she doesnt like you eith...

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Posted Monday June 4 2007, 8:37 am

17/f

ive never had a bf and ive never had my 1st kiss. how do i get guys to like me or start to flirt with them without it been too obvious?
my best mate has a bf and every time she goes on about that she hasnt seen/spoke to him in a while it makes me feel low..how do i stop this from happening without her noticing im upset? x

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number one way


Posted Monday June 4 2007, 6:08 am

what is the number one way you can tell if a girl likes you(besides hearing it from her friends because they can lie) like visual, body action, stuff like that. question would probobly be better answered by the ladies: what do you do to come on to a guy and show him you like him without saying it. this way i can look for those signs in her. 14 M btw

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asking girls out


Posted Monday June 4 2007, 6:06 am

14 M: if im talking to a girl on the phone or on AIM(but aim is lame for asking out) what is the best way to actually ask a girl to be your GF...like and example of words ""

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Im still confused


Posted Monday June 4 2007, 5:39 am

So, there is a girl i like, I dont know if she likes me back(sounds typical). Well im never nervous around girls i mean ive kissed and made out and had GFs and that sort of thing, but this one is weird...im more attracted to her than anyone else previously because i seriously biked 10 miles at 3 in the morning to her house to go see her because she missed me lol. Now the confusion part: ive never had any nervous problems with girls. ive always been very open and not shy at all. the part that confuses me is this girl makes me nervous because im sort of afraid to ask her out and that is not how im like at all. anyway the basic question i guess is should i persue her and ask her out or just be friends? Another twist in the story is she said s...

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Friends w/ Benefits - I don't get it


Posted Monday June 4 2007, 3:00 am

ok, i'm having a hard time understanding the whole "friends with benefits" thing. i mean, if you're attracted to someone, and that close to them, why wouldn't you want to just be boyfriend/girlfriend? and i know this sounds sexist, but... i can understand why a guy would like this arrangement ("woo-hoo, i can mess around with any girl i want!"), but as for the girls... don't you feel used and cheap? or are there really that many girls who just want sex and nothing else? i'm really not trying be judgemental, i just want to understand it!

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Cheating Boyfriend & The Other Girl


Posted Monday June 4 2007, 2:33 am

Two questions, long explanation!

My boyfriend and I had been going out for a year when he started liking another girl who was always flirting with him. They were at a party and he told her he was gonna break up with me the next day, and they kissed & stuff. The next morning he called and told me what had happened, but that he realized it was a mistake and didn't want to break up. He called the girl and told her he was sorry, he couldn't go out with her. He and I spent the whole weekend crying, and from what I hear, so did she. The next time I saw her (she's on my dance team) she hugged me and said she was sorry. I know it was mostly my boyfriends fault for leading her on, so I said "its ok" and i've tried to be ...

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shy love can hurt


Posted Monday June 4 2007, 2:23 am

i am dating my girlfriend for 5 mos now and i just found out bunch of secrets she hid from me like i know i wasn't her first but she lead me to believe i was her first at certain things i.e- sex, and i found out a week ago that what she claimed i was her first about was all fake and it didn't bother me what she did with him it just hurts that she made me feel like i was the first she apologize but she claims that she forgot now she told me that she thinks she had a miscarriage with me about 2 and a half mos ago but she felt compelled not to tell me i really do like her i think i am in love with her but i need help on how to handle this situation

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boy keeps calling.


Posted Monday June 4 2007, 1:13 am

Keep in mind that I'm taken.

I made a new friend "J" and saw him with his friends all around school. Occasionally he would say hi and whatnot. We added each other on myspace and he left school. Right after he moved to a different school, HIS friend "W" added me on myspace. He said very perverted things. I laughed at it because it was a joke, yeaa? So we talked for hours online and saw each other sometimes at school.

So last week, he hung out with me and it was very awkward.. very quiet. "J" messaged me saying that "W" liked me or something. i wasn't sure but "W" has something to tell me. [I think he's going to confess his feelings for me]

But dude...

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Tell me what you think. Should I give him a second chance?


Posted Monday June 4 2007, 12:13 am

My love life has been a mess recently, and it's turned into me considering giving my ex a second chance. I'm 19, btw. He's 21.
Background: When we were together, emotions ran high and neither of us were really prepared for it. He's struggled with control, and dealing with emotions for most/all? of his teenage life, and he couldn't handle it, so he ended it.
Before he ended it, he was being kind of horrible to me. He unintentionally encouraged an eating disorder I'd been on the edge of for years, he added to my self-hatred, and when he broke up with me, threw me into depression.
On the other hand, before he freaked out about what he was feeling, he was one of the sweetest, most romantic guys I'd ever met, and he loved...

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Hypocrite


Posted Sunday June 3 2007, 11:34 pm

17/f

I've been dating this guy for about two weeks. He is my first real boyfriend. On our first date, I kissed him. Actually, he kissed me and it was sort of like a mini make-out session more than a kiss. I met him on MySpace and he goes to another school close to mine. I talked to him online and then on the phone for a few days and he asked me out. The day before the date we met at a public place to sort of break the ice so it wasn't awkward before the date. So, in other words, I kissed him the day after we met.

In the past two weeks after the date, we've made out, grinded, fondled each other, I've given him a handjob and even a blow job (not to orgasm, but I don't think that matters). He recently left for vac...

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should i talk to him about it?


Posted Sunday June 3 2007, 11:29 pm

14/f

lately i`ve been annoyed by my boyfriend.. because he does it on purpose.. and i get tired of it, makes me wanna yell like crazy and he ends up laughin` after he KNOWS that i`m annoyed by it... what am i?? i`m not his dog or his slave.. iM HiS GiRLFRiEND. and when i say that i am is girlfriend.. he starts laughing.. he seems to play around alot that gets me annoyed.. he seems to be very nosey also.. >.< our anniversary is coming up....... and ughhh idkk what to do... help me please!!!!

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