no. when you get fingered, you're supposed to feel pleasure. however, if pain is how you GET pleasure, then i suppose it's all right. if you get fingered and it hurts, he might be doing it too hard and you should tell him to calm down and not do it so hard. if you're fingering yourself, then it's okay - but if it's someone else, you should tell them to calm down.
it's like a handjob - if a handjob hurts, it kinda defeats the purpose of getting one cause handjobs are supposed to cause PLEASURE. [ orphans's advice column | Ask orphans A Question ]
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