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shy love can hurt
i am dating my girlfriend for 5 mos now and i just found out bunch of secrets she hid from me like i know i wasn't her first but she lead me to believe i was her first at certain things i.e- sex, and i found out a week ago that what she claimed i was her first about was all fake and it didn't bother me what she did with him it just hurts that she made me feel like i was the first she apologize but she claims that she forgot now she told me that she thinks she had a miscarriage with me about 2 and a half mos ago but she felt compelled not to tell me i really do like her i think i am in love with her but i need help on how to handle this situation
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She shouldn't have lied about her past- keeping something like that from you wasn't right. However, she may have been too upset to tell you about having a misacarriage right after it happened, so try and forgive her for that.
If you want to continue to have a relationship with her, sit down and have a serious discussion. Relationships are about honesty- tell her that you don't want her hiding things from you, like past sexual partners. However, you probably don't have to know every little thing about her life [women spend a lot more on hair products and shoes than we'd like to admit] but the big things, you SHOULD know.
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