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what am I doing wrong?


Posted Tuesday June 19 2007, 11:05 pm

16/f. Never had a real boyfriend or real kiss. Yeah, I feel pretty good about myself. Not. The worst part is, though, that everyone always tells me "Oh you're so pretty and nice" or whatever and yet, guys don't even look at me in any way that says "more than friends." I have this guy friend that I have sooo much in common with, and I've liked him for almost two years and I just don't understand why he doesn't like me back; I've been obsessing over it for days now and it's just an enigma to me. I mean, I'm literally the ONLY person I know who has no one who likes them; all of my friends have multiple guys that like them, and since I've started high school, not one guy has been interested in me. I'm not kidding. I don't kn...

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A senior liking an 8th grade girl


Posted Tuesday June 19 2007, 10:31 pm

sorry, this is kinda long.


Okay, im in 8th grade.. but im graduating tomorrow.. so im pretty much a freshman.

This senior.. who is moving to college next year wants to hook up with me.

Hes like 17.

and july 22 is my half birthday so ill be 14.5

look at this convo on aim we had.

a= boy
l = me

A: dhcre;ugf re
l: shey
A: shey
A: ?
l: heyyy**
A: how you is
l: i is good, ytu?
A: pretty good
A: kinda bored tho nd really tired
l: same heeree.
l: i have graduation tomorrow :] are you going
A: y do like want me to go?
l: dont you have a brother in m...

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Bf and other guy..


Posted Tuesday June 19 2007, 10:14 pm

I have a bf that I'm in love with and he means absolutely everything to me. I've been with him for 7 months. He's amazing to me and we get along perfectly but sometimes I just get sick of him. He gets so annoying and I never want to talk to him. I met this other guy and he's a real sweetheart and we've known each other for about a month. He's also amazing and sweet. We got to know each other more and he really likes me and I really like him. He wants to date me and everything but I have a bf that I still really love. I like both of them. I feel so horrible..I can't even believe myself. I don't know what to do. I'm so stuck. Please help me.

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ex boyfriend


Posted Tuesday June 19 2007, 9:08 pm

ok so heres the deal
so i dated this guy and everything was goin good and then we kinda started to argue a little bit so we decided to take a little break while he went to NYC on vaca. and then a couple days after he got back we would talk about things..well then he tells me that he fucked one of my closest friends while we were on the break and so we broke up and i was really hurt and i talked my "friend" that did this to me and she said shes sooo sorry and that she wont ever talk to him again n all this so he asked me back out and stupid me, i said yes and then in lunch the next day i saw her look at him and smile and i just couldnt take it so i broke up with him but we still talked and chilled but mind you he was doin th...

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a boy<3


Posted Tuesday June 19 2007, 8:28 pm

kay, well i like a boy. and was on my bus this year. we got close. but now schools over idk how to ask him out. i know where he lives. and his#

12/f


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Is it too late to get a boyfriend?


Posted Tuesday June 19 2007, 7:58 pm

15/f. I've never had a boyfriend before. And looking around me, I see people who have boyfriends. And it kind of tears me apart. I want to have a relationship like that with someone. I want to be close with someone. But I don't know how to go about doing that...getting one. I'm sometimes even embarrassed at the fact that there are 13 and 12 year olds who have had boyfriends, and those who've changed them many times. Do I care if he's older? No. I just really want one. Going on 16 and entering the 10th grade, I feel as though I will never get one. Is being smart a turn off? :( I wouldn't consider myself ugly either. But my self-confidence isn't that high. I don't have many real friends....which is why I want a boyfriend. Any help and advice ...

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last day of school...


Posted Tuesday June 19 2007, 7:13 pm

Okay, so i used to go out with this guy, but then I broke up with him. Anyways, now i REALLY like him again. So heres the deal, tomorrow is the last day of school and I really want to make a move. Like it would make my LIFE if I kissed him. (14/f) also Im kinda shy, so I would never just like walk up to him and be like "you wanna walk with me" or w/e. Thanks! % ;-)

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Good Kissing


Posted Tuesday June 19 2007, 7:12 pm

Okay last night I kissed this guy and obviously I wasnt that bad because he wants to again but at the same time I am really self concious about it. What would you say makes up a good kisser?

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How can I make a good impression?


Posted Tuesday June 19 2007, 6:35 pm

So I like this guy named Kevin right? He hangs out with my friends every once and a while and is really cute and sweet. But he invited me to his summer house with a few of our friends for the night. Now he knows I am not going to be a hoe all of a sudden and jump on him but at the same time I want to make a good impression. What are little things that guys like when girls do while like kissing and cuddling and what not?

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WHAT TO DO WITH THIS GUY PLEASE HELP!


Posted Tuesday June 19 2007, 6:06 pm

ok so i broke up with my boyfrend and like this guy named J and i dont kno if he lieks me he is like my best frend and he tells me alot and he will always like this girl that is like the nicest and most popular girl in school and she is my really good frend....J was flirting with me in the pool at a party but i cant tell if it was just him being a guy or if he was like actually flirting he was tounching at me and staring at me...i told him i liked him and he was like really thats cool and my frend asked him if he liked me and he was like i dont know..he couldnt make up his mind who he liked liked what should i do

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What is going on?


Posted Tuesday June 19 2007, 5:55 pm

I met this guy and he and i have been flirting ever since we met. we hit each other with pillows etc,. i definitely feel something with him.. i don't know how to approach it. i was talking to him the other day.. and was about to tell him i liked him... when i froze.. then like an idiot i texted me and told him i liked him then. next day we talked only a couple of seconds online.. but he said nothing. i don't know what to do or say or act. i'm now in a really bad mood and don't know what to do!

i really like him... he is very shy and he won't even tell his friends about it.. he says he's "shy". HELP! What should I do without being to pushy?

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third base


Posted Tuesday June 19 2007, 5:45 pm

allright well my boyfriend really wants to go to second base. and im not sure if i do and like he has asked me before and i told him i would rather wait. and stuff but i can tell that he really wants to and lately he has begged me and stuff and i dont want him to like get mad at me for not doing it. and i just dont know what to do.

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does my bff still have feelings for my bf


Posted Tuesday June 19 2007, 5:31 pm

ive liked my bff's boyfrined named ryan (ex bf now) since before she ever knew him and i just never old her. so when she started to go out with him i started to like someone else but still kinda like him so after they broke up i thought it'd be okay to date him because she said she didnt care if i did she just didnt want to see me get hurt like i was in the past and like she was in the past but i told her i wouldnt get hurt but that didnt convince her so i said that i didnt actually like him and that i was only preteneding to go out with him even though thats not true. so now since then shes had 3 different boyfriends and says that she hates ryan, but she had called him and asked him to come swimming with her and then she asked him if he st...

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HELPPP! boyfriend break up troubles


Posted Tuesday June 19 2007, 5:24 pm

ok so my boyfriend and i have been going out for about 1 month and i have decided that i am not really that into him anymore i mean we kissed and have had our moments but is there a nice way to let him down gently and still be friends!?!

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Am i wrong to be mad about this?


Posted Tuesday June 19 2007, 4:38 pm

well i know this is gonna sound stupid but anyway... whenever me and my bf get together, we look at each others cell phones to see who the other person has been calling/texting. (we dont actually admit thats what we're doing, but thats what we do). well yesterday we got into a fight over it. he got mad because these 2 guys had been texting me. ok now these 2 guys are really nerdy and theres no way i'd ever like them, and my bf knows that. so it was stupid for him to get mad. on the other hand, my bf had made all these calls to this one girl amanda. amanda is really pretty and shes also a big slut, so that made me really mad!! he said he was just prank calling her, but whatever. he said i have no right to be mad at him for calling girls, whe...

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this guy...like him ALOT


Posted Tuesday June 19 2007, 4:12 pm

ok well me and this guy...lets call him bob...bab and I got close and after being friends I gave him a H.a.n.d.j.o.b. and we were both seeing someone;therefore I couldn't tell anyone at the risk of both our mates finding out..so now he's gone to camp scince yesterday.he hasn't told anyone.I told my bffl and she didn't tell anyone but someone overheard us and told EVERYONE.Now...what should I do because he won't belive it...he'll think I told everyone...maybe so I dunno what I should do to get him to forgive me if he's mad...he gets back from camp on Monday the 25 so what should I do ?

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does he need space or concern?


Posted Tuesday June 19 2007, 4:10 pm

My boyfriend's dad is in the hospital & it seems to be something serious. He's been there for days and I've been trying to help and talk to him. He tells me not to worry and to focus on myself, not him. We've barely talked the last coupld of days. I feel really bad & I love him more than anything, so of course I want to be there for him. Does he just need space right now?

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14 and 17 year old couple?


Posted Tuesday June 19 2007, 4:03 pm

Would a 14 year old girl and a 17 year old guy workout in a relationship?

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move in


Posted Tuesday June 19 2007, 4:02 pm

The guy I like finally broke up with his girlfriend. My friends, family, and other peeps like schoolmates think he just went out wiht her to get back at me because he asked me out like three years ago but I said no...do you think he got this girl to make me jealous...because it did. Now they broke up. When I talked to him like 4 days ago he talked to me about the situation and he went in septh with it and usually he always wants nothing to do with me but now he does. Much help is appreciated, I want the truth as well.My question basically is do you think he got this girl to go out wiht him to get back at me and will he ask me out soon? ((dont say ask him out because i am a very shy person)).

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Boyfriend is bored.


Posted Tuesday June 19 2007, 3:56 pm

When he comes over, we just watch TV or do something else just as boring. Well.. I'm sure he gets bored of it. He's coming over again Thursday.

And I want to do something else. But I'm not sure. He really seems to want to play a game with me.

But I don't have any playstation/gameboy/xbox games he likes.

So any other games? Card? Board? ...Something?

And after that, I'd like to go out somewhere. To the mall, out to dinner, ice skating?

Something like that. But I don't really have any money. D:

Help please..? Any ideas?

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