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Am i wrong to be mad about this?
well i know this is gonna sound stupid but anyway... whenever me and my bf get together, we look at each others cell phones to see who the other person has been calling/texting. (we dont actually admit thats what we're doing, but thats what we do). well yesterday we got into a fight over it. he got mad because these 2 guys had been texting me. ok now these 2 guys are really nerdy and theres no way i'd ever like them, and my bf knows that. so it was stupid for him to get mad. on the other hand, my bf had made all these calls to this one girl amanda. amanda is really pretty and shes also a big slut, so that made me really mad!! he said he was just prank calling her, but whatever. he said i have no right to be mad at him for calling girls, when i text other guys. well, i guess... but there's a difference here, right? the guys i texted are harmless, but the girl he called is anything but. plus those guys texted me first and i just answered to be nice, whereas my bf is the one who called amanda first. am i wrong to be mad about this?
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you arent wrong to be mad about this as long as you take that madness out in a nice way. instead of fighting or yelling at eachother just talk about it nicely. just simply ask him why and if you dont believe him ask your closest guy friend to talk to him. and also explain over and over again that the guys you are texting are just your friends nothing more and if he doesnt believe you tell him to ask your bestfriend.
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sounds exactly how he feels about you txting other guys. To YOU they may be harmless but to him he may think otherwise, just like you think that girl is "dangerous" he may not think that way.
Just talk to him about it, calm and rational.
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This really doesn't sound like a healthy relationship at all whatsoever. i was the same way with my ex boyfriend & that never turned out well. If hes constantly calling this girl hes most likely not prank calling her.. especially if he didnt dial *67 before he put her number in, because, nobody prank calls from an unblocked number right? you have all the right to be mad about this because he's lying to your face. explain to him that you don`t tolerate cheating and that if he wants to get with amanda, he'll lose you.. & he needs to choose instead of playing games & lying to you. i`ve dealt with this same situation before, you really need to let him know that you won`t let him walk all over you & that you won`t accept being lied to.
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yes. i know its intimidating to know hes talking to a town slut or whatever but he chose you didnt he? and hes wrong to. your just texting you both need to have a talk about trust, you guys can have friends of the opposite sex.
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