ok so my boyfriend and i have been going out for about 1 month and i have decided that i am not really that into him anymore i mean we kissed and have had our moments but is there a nice way to let him down gently and still be friends!?!
KellyHappy answered Tuesday June 19 2007, 8:25 pm: sorry to say, but there is no way of doing this nicely.
you should probably tell him how you feel, you dont feel for him the same way and you really love him as a person, but not a signifigant other.
if he understands, youll be able to still be friends.
however, if he still has strong feelings for you he may not be able to be friends anymore. or at least until hes over you. because everytime he seees you all hell think about is how much he likes you and how he doesnt have a chance. so he might get depressed, depending if hes sensitive.
so the best way is to just explain to him how you feel, and dont end it in an argument.
dancergirl027 answered Tuesday June 19 2007, 8:25 pm: breaking up with somebody is always really hard. i think you should just call him or see him but dont do it over aim or e-mail. and just tell him that you dont have the same feelings for him anymore. tell him you still want to be friends, but tell him like you mean it. you can still hang out with him and let him know that. treat him like one of your friends from now on..hope this helps!
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