my friend and i have the exact same taste in guys...HELP!!
Question Posted Tuesday June 19 2007, 5:29 pm
my friend and i have the exact same taste in guys but i don't no what to do, i mean i have confronted her about it but she doesn't know what to do either. We both like this adorable guy but who should get him?? HELP PLEASE!?!
But maybe trying doing some activities apart from your bff. By joining different clubs you'll meet completely different boys--that way you don't have the same prediciament.
HAPPY2HELPx33 answered Tuesday June 19 2007, 8:33 pm: The same exact thing always happens with my friends! It always seems like everytime you find this great guy you have your friends on your tail. See what you can do be extra flirty =) or maybe try and find someone else for your friend... I don't know but if you really want him just go for him ... ahah (good luck on your competiotion) =) [ HAPPY2HELPx33's advice column | Ask HAPPY2HELPx33 A Question ]
xomegaroni answered Tuesday June 19 2007, 8:30 pm: Friendship is way more important than random guys here and there. Maybe if you're trying to find a new guy or meet guys, establish from the beginning when either of you like him. You shouldn't battle it out to see who should get him. If you truly like him, talk to her about it. If she starts getting mean/upset & says that she feels the same way, both of you drop it & look around for someone else. I would suggest that if you really do like a guy in the future, don't tell her about it right away. Let it go & see if you & him can have a decent relationship or at least friendship, then introduce them later on. Obviously it would be difficult to do this since she's your friend, but you can't mix her with guys if you have the same taste as her. If either of you get involved with this guy, one of you will end up getting hurt. Is that even worth it? If you just need to see who he likes & let him decide, you can do that but you have to be prepared if it isn't you. If you don't see her as a close enough friend, then you should go for it.
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