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Sex or Love?
Posted Monday July 2 2007, 9:09 am
How can you tell if a guy is after sex or love? I feel like I can't be objective so I'm just gonna tell you some stuff and you'll tell me what you think.. what is he after? He seems to be very interested in me even though we've NEVER kissed or held hands or had any physical contact (so that speaks for LOVE right?) ALTHOUGH I have given him strong signs that if he were to become mine, we'd do A LOT of physical stuff.. so I have planted expectations in his head. When he flirts it's usually like "i can't wait to be alone with you" "i cant wait to see you..theres all these things i want to say to you..and do to you" or "make sure you wear tasty lipgloss the next time you come over" but sometimes he also says "...
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Work It Out
Posted Monday July 2 2007, 8:52 am
What are some ways to flirt with a guy that you work with? We work in a restaurant in different positions, but pass each other a lot in the kitchen and stuff.
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About MEN! Only guys answer please.
Posted Monday July 2 2007, 7:45 am
Ok im having some..issues with my boyfriend and i would like it if only guys would answer this.
Well for one, i really dont like some of the things he does. I don't want to tell him all the time not to do stuff but i really wish he wouldn't. For instance, he likes to go for walks during the middle of the night. I get scared because i don't want anything to happen to him! Another thing is when he does stupid things. For example, standing on the roof with his sisters boyfriend or standing in the middle of the road for 'fun' or throwing scissors in the air to try and stick them in the ceiling because hes 'bored'. He promised me he wouldn't do anything stupid anymore but he's broken that like 3 times! What should i do??
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I like my best friend, but he has a girlfriend
Posted Monday July 2 2007, 7:08 am
Hi. Im 16 year old girl and i've been "in love" with my best friend for ages. we hang out all the time. i know everything about him, and he knows everything about me. we have so much in common and we have so much fun together.. but he recently asked out this girl and well.. now their a couple. now i dnt know this girl.. but i dnt like her haha. nah not really but im really jealous. Now i saw some other columns and they say that i shud be supportive.. but i need advice on how to be that for him. every time her name comes up i feel like crying.. i try to be supportive and be happy for him but when i get home.. i cant help but cry. he's such an awesome person and he deserves someone so great.. but i want it to be me. we've talked abo...
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KJSDF. AHHH
Posted Monday July 2 2007, 3:02 am
I feel like drinking BLEACH
So, my best friend got this IM from this random guy, so I added him on my buddylist thinking I would just IM him later to see who he is... and stuff.
And so, I IMed him today, and we started talking and he doesn't go to my high school and everything, and he seemed nice and all. Then my ex boyfriend, my best friend, and my other friend that went to school with him said that he was really weird, and he's just not my type. He always gets turned down, and I feel terrible. He asked me out on a date and I said yeah, because I didn't want to be like NO, I mean, what the heck, I just met this guy and he's asking me out?! I just don't know what to do. I'd feel way too bad just being like NO, and stuff.. I can't do things like that.
Help?
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this is so weird...
Posted Monday July 2 2007, 2:33 am
Well, ok. I'm 16 and I've been dating an AMAZING guy for 6 months. I am so in love. Well my mom knows this and she knows we want to have sex so she bought us condoms and stuff and then when we told her we did it, she got pissed off and hid the rest of them...
We talked to her about safe and responsible sex (yes I know there is no such thing as 100% safe sex i dont want to hear it.) and she seemed to be open about the idea and then all the sudden she went psycho and wont let me stay at my boyfriends house anymore. He spends weeks at a time over here and she doesnt mind us sleeping in the same room, but I cant stay over there. It is upsetting for me and my boyfriend because I used to stay the night over there all the time. Can ...
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Do we need more time together or some time apart?
Posted Monday July 2 2007, 1:11 am
I'm 17 (female), My boyfriend is 18. The problem i'm having is things are starting to get boring and our love is falling apart. We don't fight, but it gets boring and I feel that our love is weakening. He's lived with me for the last 5 months because his mom had to move and...long story lol. But he'll be living with me here till I turn 18 then we're getting a place together. We have internet at the house again and ever since we got it back, he plays games, I get on myspace and yahoo and talk to people and that's how the day goes, then we go up to my room and go to sleep. I don't know if it's that we need time apart, or time together. We still laugh and have fun when we're together, but we barely go places together, when he wants to walk, i'...
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guys?
Posted Monday July 2 2007, 12:53 am
i know most girls like to be called pretty or beautiful, or at least i do.. but when a guy tells me that he thinks i am pretty, what should i say back other then thank you- like do guys like to be called hott? sexy? something else? i usually say that someone is very attractive but is there somthing that guys like to be called...? thanks
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Who loves who more.
Posted Sunday July 1 2007, 11:30 pm
Why do people always think that if your in a serious relationship then the guy loves the girl more then the girl loves the guy?
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friend/boyfriend?
Posted Sunday July 1 2007, 10:51 pm
i'm not all guy crazy like my friends are, i don't go to the mall and go ohh hes hott! i am not like that, even close, i dont even walk by guys and judge them. there is this kid i have kinda had my eye on this past school year but again nothing major. my best friend has been friends with him forever so he is always over her house when i am there, we go swimming at night there and its a long story but she asked him and i to go swim around the pool and flirt for a while, i was glad to cause i kinda like him. so we flirted and when it was totally dark he swam by me and pulled my bathing suit bottom and then grabbed my top(he knew my strings were double knotted so he grabbed the front like my boob)it seems bad but it wasnt and i laughed so the ...
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Boy and Softball
Posted Sunday July 1 2007, 10:09 pm
My cousin asked me to play on his team in softball this year for the 4th of July (traditional event). I said yes. Then my cousin told me that my crush was going to be on the same team. I thought this might be a really good chance to talk to him. Do you have any pointers? Ice breakers? Anything that can mean us talking like friends?
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about the other question you answerd
Posted Sunday July 1 2007, 10:07 pm
well i am aloud to read his messages. But there was one i found that said "...if we can be friends w/ benefits..." to his ex-girlfriend.
Well it sounds 1/2 like a joke and 1/2 not a joke. so should i still confront him about that??
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Singel 2 long
Posted Sunday July 1 2007, 9:39 pm
well i'v been singel for to long (2yrs) and i'm ready to make a move well it's not that i'm not attactive guy's are always hitting on me. But i need help like with guy's not to hit on me so much but like making them want to go out with me.
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sleeping with him...sorta.....not really
Posted Sunday July 1 2007, 9:13 pm
theres a guy i like in my church group and we have church sleep overs (for our youth group only) and the leaders always fall asleep really fast and we go into the sanctuary and make out (and the other people in the group just stay downstairs cus they're watchi ng a movie) and i absolutely love him he's the perfect guy with like glasses and not popular but when you take them off u see a really handsome face with gorgeous eyes and i'm not a popular girl so this is absolutely awesome for me. after like 15-20 mins we go downstairs and we get in our own sleeping bags but i woke up one morning and we were still in our sleeping bags but like right up against eachother like literally i woke up against his cheast and i would really really really lik...
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College
Posted Sunday July 1 2007, 9:01 pm
I am going away to college, about a half hour from my boyfriend. We have been dating a while now and I want to know something sweet I can do for him or give him before I leave for college. I also want some ideas of what to do while I am in college to make sure we keep in touch and stay together. Thank you!
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wat should i do
Posted Sunday July 1 2007, 8:14 pm
oka here is the deal there this guy that i knda like and well the guy that i like is my best friend bother and she had ask me if i like him and i said no not that much which is a lie.Anywayz so i spent a night at her house a few times and when i do her brother will always come in there and be messing around and messing with me alot of times but he do that with everyone so yea. But i want to know how can you tell if a guy likes you and should i tell him i like him or what.
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crazy boy...
Posted Sunday July 1 2007, 7:45 pm
okay, there's this boy that i can't decide if i like or not. Half the time, he's the sweetest guy i've ever met. the other half, he's a horrible jerk. he'll be a total jerk to me (although he says he's just kidding, it's still very cruel), then when i get mad at him, he'll be super sweet. Whenever he calls or texts me, i can't help but smile, because it's always something funny or sweet. But in some ways, i can't stand him. He's really shallow sometimes. he's had girlfriends, broken up with them, and had another a day later. i don't want to be one of those girls. but what if he asks me out? i think he might like me. Should i give him a chance?
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eghhh
Posted Sunday July 1 2007, 6:43 pm
okay,well I am really confused I don't want to sound like some werid-o but I have this boyfriend that lives in cali and I live in ohio and like I really want someone up here but than again I really like my boyfriend alot,I dated him before and stuff but I don't know like last time in the realtionship he didn't care about anything but this time he CHANGED like a lot his the one that cares and his the one spilling his heart out and its really cute,but maybe i should stay with him,even if he doesnt give me what i want,no as in a slutty way.ha. but he like makes me feel love yakno? like my heart is beating really fast right now and stuff. so i dont know what to do any help?
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is she between us?
Posted Sunday July 1 2007, 6:20 pm
im almost 15 and i have been with my boyfriend for about 8 months now. One of his good friends who is a girl needs him for what shes going through at home right now. He admits that he has neglected me for his attetion has been focused on her. (BTW she likes him) I have told him that she has beginning to get between us, but he fails to see it and says im the only one who sees it. So what is really between us then? Am I right? Or is there something else?
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Senior in highschool- never had a boyfriend.
Posted Sunday July 1 2007, 6:16 pm
So... yeah.
I'm 16/F.. i'll be a senior next year (yes, i'm young for my grade.... 17 in september) and i've never had a boyfriend. I sort of had one freshman year, but it wa more of a... nothing, really. it was like we said we were going out, but we couldn't drive and we were like 14 and whatever. it was dumb.
Anyways, so i've only kissed two guys in my life. One was that not-boyfriend in 9th grade... and it was pretty much him jumping down my throat and i hated it. And the other was spin the bottle. Which was a good kiss, but it obviously didn't mean anything. The bottom line is, i really want a boyfriend.
And that sounds shallow, i know it does. I've always been the girl who's always saying, ...
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