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Do we need more time together or some time apart?
I'm 17 (female), My boyfriend is 18. The problem i'm having is things are starting to get boring and our love is falling apart. We don't fight, but it gets boring and I feel that our love is weakening. He's lived with me for the last 5 months because his mom had to move and...long story lol. But he'll be living with me here till I turn 18 then we're getting a place together. We have internet at the house again and ever since we got it back, he plays games, I get on myspace and yahoo and talk to people and that's how the day goes, then we go up to my room and go to sleep. I don't know if it's that we need time apart, or time together. We still laugh and have fun when we're together, but we barely go places together, when he wants to walk, i'm tired of sick and when i wanna walk, he's tired or sick. What can we do to make things right again?
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Maybe he need to act his age... and dont be on myspace alot.. i have a sister shes 24 and she has no life and always on myspace and it gets me mad.. because shes their 24/7 buh juss sit down and talk to him ... the reason why its boring because maybe you should have more.... you know and take him out until one day he notices that his a jerk ignoring you and then he'll start actting liek a prince to you
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Try to get him to take you out on a date or to dinner or anywhere! When hes playing at the computer what i do to my boyfriend if i get bored is start cuddling him and kissing him. Make him a romantic dinner or rent some movies to watch. Everyone gets a bit bored during their relationships so just think of new ways to spend time together. Your lives have become a bit routine so try to spend as much time outside the house rather than inside playing on the computer. If you have a dog then its a reason for both of you to become more active and walk it regularly. This will give you time to spend with each other and to get out of the house. Anything to make you more active will make you want to spend more time outside. Maybe you should be more affectionate to him. You both love each other you just need to spend some more time together. i hope it all works out! Love xXxPuNki-PiXiExXx
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Do you spend time away from one another? It sounds like you don't have anything to talk about because you spend all your time together, or in the same house. Try going out with your friends every once in a while and doing things with your boyfriend that requires you to leave the house. You could have a date night every week where the both of you spend quality time together. I think you guys just need something else going on in your lives so you have something to talk about and share with one another. I hope this helps. <3 Dana
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