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Telling the family about boyfriends.
Posted Wednesday July 4 2007, 7:00 am
Ok this is an issue that hasn't been resolved for over 7 months. My boyfriend which i love dearly really wants me to tell my family about him. He's told his mum about me but i haven't told my family about him yet. My best friend knows about him though. If he lived near me i wouldn't have a problem but the issue is, he lives on another continent. He was just a guy i met on msn and talked to for a while and i duno i never thought id fall inlove with some guy online but i did. So we decided to date. This is the first time i ever dated anyone online cuz i always thought "omg what loser would date online" but it's weird, i just love him. Whenever we talk online or on the phone he's always asking me to tell my family about him because h...
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Not experienced.
Posted Wednesday July 4 2007, 5:25 am
15/f. For 7 months I was with my girlfriend. About 2 months ago we broke up & I was heartbroken, it's taken me a while to get over this, but I am finally ready to move on.
My best guy friend has always been there for me, and now he tells me that he likes me a lot. Now I am a lesbian, but I have feelings for him. I'm willing to try it out, but he is really experienced as in sexually. I've done pretty much nothing but make out with guys.
Do you think it's a good idea for me to be with him? Could I still be a lesbian and be attracted to a guy?
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In love with my ex(my best friend)
Posted Wednesday July 4 2007, 2:23 am
17/f. It has been over a year since I broke up with my ex. And he is still my best friend. Since I met him two years ago he has been my best friend. I love him. I would do anything for him. I love him so much; I don't know what I would do if I didn't have him in my life. I want another chance with him. Problem is he has a girlfriend and they have been together for a year. Well, I want to tell him how I feel. I don't care anymore if I mess things up with them(I know, it sounds mean or whatever, but I don't). Part of me is afraid that when I tell him things will get weird between us, but we have been through a lot so that it might not. Part of me just wants to take the risk. What should I do? How should I tell him how I feel? I'm so confused.
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does he likes me
Posted Wednesday July 4 2007, 1:24 am
oka im really confuse i like this guy right, which is my friend brother and just the other day he found out that i like him. But before he knew i liked him everytime i go to there house he always be fooling around and bumping into me and one time i was laying down and he lay right beside me talkin in a deep voice to me and stuff.And i just want to know if he likes me or what because now he knows i like him and i dont know what to do.
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was this good advice or not?
Posted Wednesday July 4 2007, 1:19 am
i have this friend tom who's kind of nerdy and has never had a girlfriend. and there's this girl amy (also pretty nerdy) who has liked tom all year. she's been convinced that tom likes her, even though he keeps saying he doesn't. well the other day tom asked me "should i go out with amy?". and i said, "yeah! if you like her!". and he said, "but i don't." (he likes all these popular girls who would never go out with him). so i told him... if you don't like her at all, then don't go out with her. but if you like her a little, then give it a try and see how it goes. so he asked her out, and now she's all excited. but now im wondering if that was good advice or not. cuz if he really doesnt like her that ...
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competitive mom stealing my bf
Posted Wednesday July 4 2007, 12:50 am
13/f
my problem is with my best friend's mom. she's really competitive and wants her daughter to be the best at everything... grades, sports, popularity in school, whatever. well, any time i do better at something (which happens a lot actually), her mom kinda freaks out. i mean, she's always really nice to me, but i can tell it drives her crazy.
well, one thing her mom really wants is for my friend to have a boyfriend. but my friend is really shy around guys, and even though a lot of guys ask her out, she always says no. and her mom gets mad at her about it. and i know her mom is really jealous that i've had a boyfriend for over a year.
but now for the big problem. my boyfriend's family is reall...
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Better to have loved and lost... I guess.
Posted Wednesday July 4 2007, 12:49 am
Ok. so last year (or the year before i guess) I really really liked this guy. I mean, he was just my idea of an angel. He was sweet,funny, cute and smart. Well, he found I liked him, and I found out that he wasn't so sweet. He completely flipped, and I was heartbroken. I told people I didn't care because it softened the reality, but It took me a long time to get over that.
Well, a couple of days ago I met this AMAZING guy. He's funny, smart, he loves music as much as I do, he's adorable, and he is really really sweet.. Well, I just met him and I fell hard, and a lot of people have told me that we'd be cute together and blah blah blah. I find it kind of hard to believe that I like him as much as I do because we just met, but thats ju...
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crush
Posted Wednesday July 4 2007, 12:44 am
well theres this guy that i knew from school. hes a year older than me and ive never actually talked to him. but hes a twin and i had a class with his brother last year and i talked to him a little bit but only about the work and the class andstuff. well, i saw my crush about a week ago at mcd's and he stared at me when he walked by and even my mom commented that 'that metalhead is staring at you'. i wanted to know what that meant exactly because ive never spoken to him and ive never had a class with him or anything. and i also wanted to know how i could see him agian so i could myabe talk to him or let him know im interested but i dont know his friends and the ones i do know im not close enough with to actually know their phone numbers or ...
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Best friend?
Posted Wednesday July 4 2007, 12:30 am
So, for a mutual friend's birthday, my friend Ethan and I went to Disneyland (in a group with 6 others). We hung out the whole day (well, duh, but like it was everyone and then it was us) and rode like everything together.
I don't really know how to "test the waters," persay, and see how he thinks of me. He's generally really nice and touchy-feely (that sounds creepy. I mean, like hugs and stuff are quite commonplace.) , and so I can't tell if he likes me at all.
The thing is, though, that telling him flat out really isn't an option because it would change things between us.
Anyone have any water-testing ideas?
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very confused
Posted Wednesday July 4 2007, 12:26 am
one of my friends told me that another one of my friends has a crush on me but then i asked him about it and he said he didn't but then i overheard his younger brother on the phone asking if he was talking to his girlfriend and he doesnt have a girlfriend so im just wondering, does he or doesnt he like me?
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Over him?
Posted Wednesday July 4 2007, 12:26 am
Okay, so this is a monstrostiy of a story, but no one really likes those, so I'll try to keep it concise.
So, basically, through an extracurricular, I met a guy. Let's call him Charlie. Basically, the day after I met him, I got his number and we texted like 400 messages in 2 days.
All of a sudden, he wasn't returning my calls. He stopped texting me back and iming me and commenting me back.
I actually went to see a show he was in and the director introduced us to the group and he pulled his hat down and turned around.
I can't figure out if it's something I did, or what. But I'm still not quite over him. :/
Anyone have anything to offer? Potential motives?
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Answers from guys, please?
Posted Wednesday July 4 2007, 12:02 am
Okay, so what do you guys look for in a girl? From what I can tell in school its just looks and style basically. I have neither of them. I'm just...me.
I'm 5'6", 15/f. A little overweight. I have really dark brown, curly hair that almost looks black and dark brown eyes. I love being creative. I love to write. I'm working on writing something book-like right now. I also enjoy reading a lot. I'm not a genius or anything but I'm not an airhead. I love all animals. I'm pretty shy when I first meet someone, but once I warm up to them, I'm a lot different.
Does that sound like something guys would like? Most of the guys I know look for the "hot" girls that dress nice.
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Too Shy
Posted Tuesday July 3 2007, 11:04 pm
I like this boy soo much and I was planning on asking him to hang out this summer on the last day of school but I chickened out.
I can't say that I know for sure if he likes me too, we don't really talk but we exchange glances and stuff I guess.
I don't know what to do.
I added him on msn and I think he blocked me. Should I take that as a bad sign?
I talk to his sister (her and I are kinda friends) but I don't want to impose on her and make her feel awkward. She knows I like her brother and shes fine with it but thats as far as it goes.
I don't know what to do to get a hold of him.
I'm not friends with his friends, and im not one to randomly call him up.
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liking a boy but having no clue how to tell him
Posted Tuesday July 3 2007, 10:54 pm
heres the story. beging of may i started talking to this boy on the phone at night for like hours [he'd call me] and then at the end of may he got a GF for about a week [which he would NEVER talk about or anything] and i was talking to him about his GF and I told him that I thought he liked me and his resonse was well I don't. And I told him why [which was because he'd call we talk all night and other little things] and he called again that night we've talked since. and he went out with that girl for a week. And then we had summer school together and when we passed we'd "avoid" eachother [because it was a gym class and we both looked horrible] and when we were in the same class for a day we kept like eyeballing eachother but never...
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Boys of the summer
Posted Tuesday July 3 2007, 10:25 pm
Well, I gave up on the other guy. It was my second day of Jr. Lifeguarding and I got to know this boy, he's not very attractive, but I like him. He seemed interested and everything, but then he saw me talking to another guy and he seems distant now. He seems into my friend now, but she doesn't like him, but still flirts. I don't know how to get his attention back. Or if he's even interested. Should I give up or try and get his attention back, and if so, how?
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break up
Posted Tuesday July 3 2007, 10:02 pm
My boyfriend broke up with me about 7 or 8 months ago. We only went out for a little over a month. He broke up with me for another girl and it took me a while to get over because i still liked him. We managed to stay friends because we chill with the same group of people. Just a few days ago my friend told me how he was talking about how he doesn't even know why he went out with me and it was only because i had a "huge rack" and a "nice butt". And now its really been making me upset and i dont know why, what can i do?
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What am I doing wrong?
Posted Tuesday July 3 2007, 9:44 pm
Im in love and I thought that was enough but Idk. I wish he would show me that he loves me some times. He does some times and he treats me right but its like he doesnt care. I want to be with him and I dont want to take another break. I feel like im controlling. I guess its my fault...
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lying about stupid things .
Posted Tuesday July 3 2007, 9:24 pm
okay , so i went out with this boy named alec for about 4 months, then we broke up and i found out the reason was not because "we never saw eachother" it was because he liked this girl brittany . and they started going out the same day we broke up . and brittany happends to be my bestfriend's boyfriend's sister . yeah weird ... anyways . he told me he was going to the beach tommarow with his "brother , dad & step mom" then i looked on his myspace comments and saw this from his "girlfriend" brittany , it said "tomorrow is gonna be fun ur not tackling me into the water either!!!" hmm.. why would he lie about that to me? does it mean he still has feelings for me ? or what ?
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rejection
Posted Tuesday July 3 2007, 8:36 pm
i don't know how to tell this guy that i dont wanna go on dates with him anymore. We went out a week ago and hes called me and left a message yesterday but i havn't called back because i don't know what to say. He's nice and all but i just don't have any feelings for him. I rejected him last summer to so i kinda feel bad but i just don't like him. I have to call him back soon but i don't know what to say. I also have never been kissed and when we first went to the moives i was like good i can get my first make out thing over with but i don't know i want it to be with someone i like...so i don't know what to say to him and im afraid hes gonna call me back before i can think of what to say and call him. ugh sorry this was so long thanks in advance
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Zack <3
Posted Tuesday July 3 2007, 7:35 pm
Ok so this guy zack is gorgeous, sweet, funny , athletic and i could go on forever. But the thing is, i dont know how to tell him or like give him a little hint that i've fallen for him :/
Oh and theres this girl sarah who's totally getting in the way. He says he doesnt like her but my friend is trying her hardest to hook them up. Idk what to do about Sarah.
thank you so much <3
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